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No, it's always related, he doesn't do this. There is always a connection to the problem. It's not the things he says, it's the way he does it. Both of us are right or wrong when it comes to our point of view that is discussed, but I have a hard time dealing with the way he looks, the way he...

Ah, sorry, got that mixed up as it seems. I am experienced with passive aggressiveness for sure. That's Sward's way. Something equally unnerving and nonconstructive most of the time, but I am just used to it, I guess. Something that shows me, how fresh the relationship between Lin and me still...

Don't worry about that. At least, well, one might worry a bit here, as I told him that it wasn't his fault obviously and that I didn't tell him to seek him to change his ways, as I know that he just works that way by now. I told him that I was searching for a solution for myself to handle his...

There a new year has arrived and I am uneasy as always when there is some kind of real or just felt change. I just don't like it *sigh* Unsatisfied with whatever there is in the back of my mind. Maybe I haven't got enough to do and to occupy myself with, which will change soon hopefully. I am...

I totally get what your situation must be like. I guess I would feel pretty much the same were this to happen to me and one of my men. Totally changing the familiar and comfortable set of ground rules, even acting against established boundaries that made you feel comfortable in the given...

Thanks for taking the time to respond to this fallout of a nightly funk. I think you touched on some important bits. Totally right, I feel that I saw a glimpse and am unsure how to handle the 'whole' if it was ever thrown right into my face. We already talked about his emotions after the fight...

Clash of personalities [Nothing poly related at all, just some random thoughts I didn't know where else to put.] As I just read about the difficulties another couple is experiencing and because I could so picture myself in this situation if things go wrong one way or the other, my thoughts...

Hm, sounds like what happened in my/our case. The story you have asked for, is quite long by now, you can read about it in my blog (see signature). The first pages are about how we got things started. There is lots of advice, but I guess the most important one for this situation: Do the guys...

Great news, Mya. Indeed, secrecy is a burden and it feels great when you are accepted, especially if it is family we are talking about, from my point of view. Happy for you :)

All there is to say: Have fun! :D Today as well as hopefully on that night during your trip :) Totally happy for you.

Indeed, we just received a huge present box for the three of us from Lin's family. A text from his mother said that she is totally nervous and excited how we will like the presents and as it seems, she has spend quite some time chosing things for Sward and I over the last weeks :D It inevitably...

Nothing much is happening at the moment. I finally found some time to read for fun over the weekend. I know why I avoided doing this for so long: I am such an addict. I couldn't stop once I got into the story and now I am waiting for the rest to be delivered because I instantly ordered the rest...

Same for me. I expected the threat to be about your and Elemental's poly-break and how things developed around it. I would second what Annabel and Anne already said. Something along the lines of recognizing the pattern, connecting it to your own experience and disagreeing with it or being...

Heh! Talking about nice development and positivity and such :) So happy for you :D

You may be right, but I just ask myself: Why complicate things just because of my own needs/wants that are so subjective and selfish? I can't think of a 'normal' friend who would enjoy being with a whole set of family and relatives of mine. And I can't think of a reason to bring any to those...

I guess you are right, but things don't work that way around my family. There has never been any 'outsider' to any meeting at all. Just us. I would receive some irritated looks if I asked to bring someone with me, that isn't related in any way and not official partner-material. I guess, I need...

The same for me :) But I myself sometimes ponder about this coincidence ;)

Thanks. I feel the same and I am just dumbstruck how all those things that have been talked about here may even be in some way a problem for someone out there. I don't get it at all. Not the slightest. Maybe I am living in some kind of secluded area of Europe (as the OP mentioned that Europeans...

Hey there. I have been reading along since you started this blog and I feel like speaking up now. From the way you describe things in your life and what is happening right now, I feel quite concerned. Your tone is getting rougher and more tense and you mind things, I feel you wouldn't gotten...

Thanks Miss Indie, I thought it was a language thing; I didn't get it at all. :)