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Poly interview by Tom Becka, from 1290 KKAR in Omaha, NE. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tcWBTtncnYI It's also on tombecka.com

So we spoke tonight, and I explained where I was coming from and what I need for us to move forward. She told me it was nothing more than another attempt to control her, and refused. Sorry, I wish I had a happier update.

Thank you all for your help, and encouragement, and even your wake-up calls. Yes. I see your point, and reading your post #1 I realize after reading your post and being honest with myself she didn't really "sabotage" my first relationship in the sense she tried to destroy it. She did try to...

Thank you so much for your compassion and understanding snowmelt. I met her in 1996. I had been booted for behaviors, but was one of the fortunate few (at that time) who was recommended up for treatment rather than prosecution. I had mostly psych trauma, my physical issues were mostly not...

This. Exactly this. Thank you for your help, I am so deep and so long into this that I can no longer see clearly. I am "caught up" in the moment. You are exactly right, that is the way our "conversations" go. I sought out a counselor so that we could have someone to keep us on track, a way...

First of all, Vinccenzo I really appreciate your insight. You were exactly correct that I was allowing all of our history to become one muddled ball. That isn't fair, and only contributes to the problem. :) It is true that like all relationships those three had more than one thing going on...

Thank you for your responses, but I feel like I should clarify what I am saying/asking so that I can get some more pertinent advice. :) First let me reiterate I am NOT acting out, and we are NOT fighting about this. I want to get some advice on HOW to deal with these feelings, I have no...

Hi, thank you. Please understand, I am not in any way ACTING on these feelings. Tgis is also the first time I have had them in any relationship, which is why I am looking for advise on dealing with them. I just feel deeply that there is a serious double standard that has been in play...

Hi, I have been poly all my life. I find myself in a very uncomfortable and unfamiliar position of being jealous and angry about my wife's new relationship. I will start with the punchline. She met a guy she likes very much, and has since slept with. She is happy with it and wishes to...

Also, where are you located?

"No More Mr. Nice Guy" is a great book, and as you are discovering does not involve being either a jerk or a doormat. Read it, believe it. For others here who have read "act like an asshole" articles please understand that book has nothing in common with them. Now for opinion: You sir, are...

Hi, We are a 39 year old married poly couple, together for 15 years now. We are comfortable with being poly, but now we are looking to expand a bit and really make an effort to befriend and meet other poly minded people. Ideally we can begin to form a poly community here in Omaha. We have met...