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Hey, thanks for everyone's input so far. Just like everything else, there are many different thoughts and opinions on this topic, but different insights are good. So far, nothing has come up about my wife's boyfriend getting her a ring, since the day I originally posted. I do feel though, with...

Welcome to the forum, Bazi69! Sounds like a great situation for all!

Welcome to the forums, PolyAnna317! Great place to share and receive advice. Enjoy and participate often (though I sometimes feel as though I do not participate enough, but enjoy reading the threads!)

Have you talked to your boyfriend about your feelings? Has the topic of poly ever come up between the two of you in the past year? Personally, I think it is much better to open up to him early on, then years down the road, especially if he is someone you see yourself with for a long time. You...

My best advice is just to talk to him about it, without expectations. If he is not comfortable with it right at the moment, at least you brought it up as something you would be interested in pursuing. A lot of guys, myself included are often shocked or taken aback by something my wife may say or...

Hello and welcome to the forums. I'm male married to my wife for 16 years...she has a boyfriend of about 3 years, which we all get along very well... Feel free to ask any questions from the husband perspective! Good luck!

This question is posed primarily to other men whose wife has a boyfriend or OSO. But opinions and thoughts are welcome from anyone, of course. A question my wife asked me the other day made me wonder how I would really feel about this... "How would you feel if F gave me a ring...one to wear on...

Hmmm, sounds like his Dick may have left big impression on your wife (and you)! But, very sorry to hear about the break up. Those are never good.

Hello and welcome to the forums Morava, Sounds like a great arrangement for all and most of all, everyone is happy and 4 parents raising children is a very good thing!

I would be very ok with having sex with my wife just after she was with her boyfriend. To be honest, I would really be looking forward to it. With that said, it would be completely up to my wife whether or not we had sex afterwards, either because she was too tired after coming home, or just...

So, have you had to the opportunity to talk about anything with the couple you are curious about? Just following up! LOL

I can understand telling your SO the details of your sex with your boyfriend, especially if its not something you are accustomed to doing lol...Before we were poly, my wife would tell me stories of guys she had been with before she was with me, and found it interesting I was turned on hearing...

Nope, its not just you! Hearing them, either if I am in the room or down the hall does it for me a lot also....Not much into porn, especially in the background...but real life...is all good!

Thanks to everyone for the great responses. It's nice to know other's get the same satisfaction from hearing about their partners experiences and such. I do know it is not for everyone as a lot of people follow the DADT rule, which is great if it works for them. Nice thing is, everyone's...

Good luck. Let us know how it goes!

I was thinking the same thing. Sounds to me like everyone is waiting for someone to make the first move!

I am not sure you can actually find out if one or both are poly unless you know whether either of them are in a relationship with someone in addition to their spouse, or if you just ask them straight out. It sounds like all four of you are very comfortable with each one flirting with the...

Thanks to all three of you for your comments. I am glad others get something from it as well, and that it is not considered taboo. But it does makes sense that it is not for everyone. I do feel that us talking about it also keeps communication very open, which we do a lot of, but I also want...

Disclaimer: I was very/am very hesitant to post this question, just because in the poly lifestyle I have read very little about it... But, my wife and I are in a V-Poly relationship, my wife is the hinge between myself and her boyfriend. We all get along very well together as a group as well as...

My wife and I have been together15 years, married for 10 years. She has a boyfriend and i am happily mono:). Originally married monogamous and discovered polyamory amino many other things with each other over the years. It has all worked out well for us and look forward to what the future brings.