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All sounds very good and similar to our situation. My wifes boyfriend visit are usually 2 weeks at a time where they get lots of one on one time together in addition to all of us hanging out and having a good time. He and I get along great as well and comfortable with each other even when my...

Hi Danika, welcome to the forum... Are you looking at add a male or female or couple to your lives, or does it not matter? The biggest thing is to communicate communicate communicate! The more my wife and I talk, the better we are and we both know what we are looking for when discussing having...

Thanks for all the great replies and suggestions! Sterling, sounds like a great situation that developed between the 3 of you over time. Very much the way I see our poly relationship going, my wife adored by 2 men, and all able to hang out and spend good quality time together. JaneQSmith, I...

Thanks for all the great replies. Very obvious everyone has different experiences with all 3 living together and opinions to why or why not. We have known him for about 8 years. He and my wife have been in a relationship for about 4 years, and be it long distance, visits ranged for 2 weeks to a...

I don't think my wife and I would have ever discussed having her bf move in with us, if he and I didn't get along the way we do. If he and I weren't comfortable enough with each other that we couldn't hang out together or do things on our own, we wouldn't even consider it. The whole idea and...

My wife and I are in a V poly relationship, she being the hinge. Her boyfriend and I get along very well and are very comfortable hanging out together even if my wife is not around. Our relationship is very good and we are very open and honest talking about our wants and needs and over the past...

While walking through a store one day, my wife's mother told her she had to choose between me and her bf... My wife looked at her and simply said, J is happy, I'm happy, and S is happy, it works for us and no reason to choose one.... Made me proud of her saying that!

We finally watched the show last night and really enjoyed all aspects of it. It actually got us to have some conversation on different topics the people in the show touched on, so that was very good. The first triad introduced, the woman, her husband and her boyfriend is the perfect situation my...

Soo, did anyone see thus documentary last night? Any thoughts? My wife recorded it and we will be watching it together this weekend. Would live to hear any input from those who saw it. I will post my thoughts after we watch it.

Poly documentary airs 3/5 on Oprah Winfrey Network Lisa Ling hosts an hour segment on polyamory. http://polyinthemedia.blogspot.com/2013/02/one-hour-poly-documentary-airs-march-5.html?utm_source=dlvr.it&utm_medium=facebook

Very True!!!

My wife and I each have an individual profile on OKC as well as a profile we share. Also, relationship status of "Available" typically indicates poly or married, but not always. Often times its married but separated. Hope this helps and good luck!

Bummer, the survey is down. Knew I should have completed it when I first saw it. Hopefully you got a lot of good and helpful information for your research.

We have been poly for almost 10 years. The first relationship that last over 2 years, we did not realize that we were poly until it ended. I would have to say she has never been in a relationship with someone I knew first or someone that I would feel competitive with. That does sound like an...

Who do you consider the schoolyard bully in your situation? Your girlfriend or the men she is with? I am in much the same type of relationship with my wife. I am happy with her having another significant other and feel I am more mono, but it all works good. Just like you said, I enjoy the...

I am certain that you are nervous meeting her, but I am sure all will be fine...Just be yourself and keep an open mind. I may be a bit fortunate, when my wife is meeting a potential mate for the first time, I am always there with her and that's how she wants it. So the nervousness of meeting...

Male and Female (husband/wife) both straight.

That all sounds very good, and relaxed is a nice thing! Sounds like you are off to a good start, and like you said, there may be some bumps in the road as you go along, just like any relationship, but as long as you all deal with them as they come along anything can be worked through. Openness...

Hello and welcome to the forums! Your openness and willingness to explore poly is very refreshing, especially if it is not something you had considered in the past. I do have a question if I may ask. You did not mention his wife and if you have met her and all are comfortable with the...

My wife and I have been together almost 15 years and married over 10 of those years. We have been poly for about 6 years now, maybe longer, just not realizing there was a term for what we are. She has had 2 long term relationships with others, one lasted over 2 years the other almost 3 years. I...