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Please repeat back to me what i just said. Never mind. Allow me. I said "i love it when..." So dont get unnecessarily defensive, ms.zed.

I love it when 20 year olds say things like "all my life" and " when i was young".

Why DID you create this thread then? It's in a discussion area, not in a blog area, so people are allowed to criticize. You keep dancing around this issue of how you have rules but don't want to call them rules, and she's breaking the rules, and you want us to tell you why you have them and...

Grooovy! Here's a blog you might like: http://thebitchywaiter.blogspot.com/ (I am a little hyper-sensitive to people treating servers with respect because my 19 year old cousin recently started waiting tables and she is not the most "street-savvy" person I've known of at her age, so I'm...

Do you know the waitress? If you plan on "messing" with her, you better leave at least 25% tip. Servers put up with enough shit without people deliberately "messing" with them. Also, she may not even notice or give a crap, but you should still tip generously if you plan on using her for your...

People use "safe words" in non-BDSM dynamics too, I would think - such as "Hon, there's something we need to talk about. PLease give me your undivided attention for a moment." It doesn't HAVE to be in the middle of sex, and it doesn't have to have anything to do with pain or power exchange.

I think the guy who died would have approved. :cool:

Hello. Some of the posts from this thread have been copied to the BDSM thread; others have been moved there and deleted from this thread. That is all. Carry on.

I'm wicked open-minded and expansive ATM. Went to a memorial benefit for a friend's brother and some girl started grabbing my boobs and calling me a lesbian. Won 3 home-made quilts (out of a possibility of 6). So I actually made money on this. Should I feel bad? I think not. Whootah. Can...

I was in a relationship with someone who had these boundary issues as a dominant. Those who can't keep this in perspective and think that a D/s CONSENSUAL relationship gives them the right to be an asshole are ASSHOLES and I don't even want to be in a NON D/s relationship with them. I fail to...

This is one reason why "safe words" are used. It doesn't just mean "ouch! You spanked me too hard!" It also means "we need to step out of our roles for a bit and communicate as equals".

No. I can read simple sentences and type things into Google. Most people think one must be extremely intelligent to do things like that, from what I've seen on this forum. My IQ is 144, after all.

When I find myself in an "unhealthy" behaviour pattern I think about what I would say to someone if they came on this forum and asked what they should do in the same situation. This is why you don't see me bitching and moaning about my life.

This thread is not negative ENOUGH for me. :p It should be double-plus-un-positive.

Ride a bike.

Two words come to mind immediately upon reading the original post: One is "school". The other is the opposite of "low". Not necessarily in that order.

I find it amusing and enjoy watching when people on this forum cant seem to wrap their minds around the idea that someone can be in love with more than one person and still enjoy casual sex with someone they hardly know.

Maybe she has dry skin and is using Bag Balm. That stuff reminds me of the "old lady smell" you speak of. 8-Hydroxy Quinoline Sulfate 0.3% in a Petrolatum, Lanolin Base Maybe she isn't washing her lady bits. That could also do it. You'll have to be more specific about what this "old lady...

"Lube" is not the be-all/end-all solution to vaginal pain during penetration. When I was on depo-provera, I got "vaginal atrophy" (aka tight, dry pussy - the muscles and tissues of the vagina lose their elasticity), which is a side-effect of the estrogen-progesterone imbalance artificially...

Then there's the other side of the story - sometimes I loan my books to people and never get them back.