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Read some Alfred Korzybski / General Semantics. Start with Wiki and work your way from there. Then come see me and we'll have a conversation that makes sense.

(Ivy League): Regardless of how gently and/or effectively one communicates, good communication skills can never compensate for lack of merit in one's argument. (Working class): If you're full of shit, you're full of shit no matter how nice you are.

Oh. Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh. I'm posting it in THIS thread because it does the opposite of making me smile and I think you'll all have an idea why I am the way I am after clicking the link...

Not a novel concept at all. I think a "rich guy who will pay for some kids" is better than a lazy guy who won't pay for anything and won't even fuck you, but that's just me. I'm not mainstream.

It's not always as obvious as it is this time.

If this is just a general rant about how hard it is to be jealous, I'm going to merge it with the "Jealousy" thread. If it is intended to be a thread asking for specific advice about the trust issues in your relationship, it can remain as its own thread, but the title should be changed to...

I have lost 35-40 pounds (depending which scale I stand on) since my surgery in December 2010, and I can close the fly on all but 2 of the pants I used to fit into. The really skinny ones I got rid of because I don't ever expect to be that thin again unless I go on Survivor, or get cancer.

If you both like this girl, why not ask her out on a three-way date?

You didn't say what your age was. Also, not all people of "college age" are in college, and there are plenty of people in college who are not of "college age". Around here, people will stuff your ass down your throat if you assume anything because of their age. And before I get my ass stuffed...

No it is not fair to "bring someone else into" your troubled marriage. You need to work on your existing relationship or get out of it before you involve other people. Otherwise you will go down as a statistic for why poly "doesn't work".

I like my bribes sent to PayPal: [email protected]. I don't want your sweat, just your cash.

I own one other besides this one - that is, any vaguely phallus-shaped object designed to be used for sexual penetration. I do have other objects that I can and do convert into sex toys that are not, strictly speaking, "dildos", as per their intended purpose. It's pretty cool that you can use...

He's talking about "skating the diamond". You're constantly doing crossovers and it maximizes the efficiency of each stride so that you don't have to slow down around corners.

Something was clogging up the plumbing and forcing the water out the tube that the washing machine drains into. Last night, we needed to plug up that tube with something, and ended up using one of my dildos, which did the job really well. Tonight, we did some things that appear to have solved...

That's accurate, but he has a name and that's how i refer to him.

Yes; it would be, and I have "open relationship" on my Fakebook, LOL. However - me and this guy? We're not really "buddies" either.

Because i only identify as part of a group based on hobbies or recreation, not based on something that is a component of my personality or internal workings. I can sum it up this way, i've said this before - i go to nude beaches to be nude, not to be a nudist. I joined roller derby to skate...

I cannot imagine falling in love with this person and having him as a partner without it screwing up my life. I would take responsibility for the choices i'd make, but i cannot imagine being in love with sex toy guy nor imagine him in love with me, at least not without one or both of us being so...

People are describing situations where they have sex first then fall in love. What about when you have sex and don't even WANT to know the person very well outside of the sex? For example, i used to have sex with this one guy who i am insanely attracted to but get the feeling that if we knew...

I'm sure that if anyone is out of place here, it would be me. Fortunately for the people who are poly-love purists, i do not identify as "poly", so you need not worry that i am tainting your label. You all go right on having sex only with people you are in love with. I'm not trying to get you...