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    Polyamory perspective on internet porn?

    Oh gaud, no. The only times I've ever been video'd was either while having sex with someone I love or while masturbating (same thing). I do draw the line at some point (in chalk). PM me and I'll send them to you (actually, my boyfriend has them so I can't send you those but I could make new...
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    Polyamory perspective on internet porn?

    Guess I'm an immoral person and I should be ashamed of myself because I have sex with people I don't love (or have done so and would again)? Good to know; I forgot to do that. I'll start right now.
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    Are our expectations too high?

    Sour Girl already said the same thing that I said.
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    Are our expectations too high?

    How did you meet each other? Before you met each other, did you not have other people you were seeing that it didn't work out with? Why would it be any different trying to find a third partner? I don't think you should be so discouraged just because the first person you dated as a unit didn't...
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    why MOD APPROVAL needed ???

    I've approved about 5 legitimate posts over the past day or two that were caught in the spam filter. It's been picking up more of those lately than usual. Don't take it personally.
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    Online Dating… OKCupid... what a trip. What works for you?

    You do realize I was being very sarcastic? Do you really think that I think women are either prudes or whores, and that they should put out? Are you aware that I'm a female? Did you notice that I bolded TL's remark about "kinda admirable" and I was responding to that?
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    Online Dating… OKCupid... what a trip. What works for you?

    Women are either prudes or whores. There's nothing in between. :rolleyes: Those poor guys, she could at least put out for a FEW of them.
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    Broody men, Jealousy, and Poly

    OK, I can't keep quiet about this. Is wanting a kid about you (the OP) or about the kid? If it's about you and your needs, just don't have another kid. It's gotta be about wanting to give the kid everything. It's NOT ABOUT YOU. It's NOT about your DNA, your ego, or some unsatiated...
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    going from a V to an N -- do I have to??

    Why? You're an adult, she's an adult, she supposedly knows about you, so what is he telling her that he doesn't want you to find out?
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    Online Dating… OKCupid... what a trip. What works for you?

    He ain't a real surfer then. ETA: Surfing the internet, maybe. He has 3 pics and one is of his GUITAR? I don't know where to start in on that one...
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    Online Dating… OKCupid... what a trip. What works for you?

    "surfer" means that he wears shorts, flip-flops, nothing else, has long hair and is not steadily employed. He may or may not actually have and/or know how to use a surfboard. Being "into surfers" means "do you smoke weed and can you get me any".
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    I used to giggle...

    your ipad is a prude. my ipod has no issue with the word "twat".
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    I used to giggle...

    Oh, is english not your native language? you probably said that somewhere and I missed it. I apologize too.
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    I used to giggle...

    Oh for christ sakes. I said that shoving someone's face into one's pussy was impolite. I didn't say YOUR WORDS were impolite.
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    I used to giggle...

    I'm sorry, i'm fixated on the "put my face in her twat" part. That just sounds really impolite. Exactly how does one "put" someone else's face "into" one's twat. I might want to try it some day. Should i say "please put your face into my twat" or should i grab them by the ears and just you...
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    Division in the poly community

    I call it "minding my own fucking business" but that's because i'm negative and cynical and hypercritical, and don't any of you ever forget that.
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    does anyone else find meeting other poly people hard

    Just make friends and don't worry whether they're poly. Personally it would creep me out if someone wanted to be my friend just because I'm in an open relationship. And use of the word "trawling" gives me the image that you're dragging a net around hoping to catch something, anything, as long...
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    going from a V to an N -- do I have to??

    I reread your post and i can't seem to find anything she has done to be perceived as distrustful or dishonest. Let me check it one more time. Hold on please. Ok, still got nothing on the girlfriend. Your husband on the hand... The word "delusional" comes to mind. Or you That WAS...
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    Polyamory perspective on internet porn?

    I think what has happened is that this thread has moved beyond the OP in many respects, and is no longer confined to a purpose of solving the OP's problem. It has evolved into a discussion about what place porn has in our sex lives and whether we have the right to control what others aee...
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    Polyamory perspective on internet porn?

    Ask yourselves if you have the same feelings or beliefs about watching a movie or tv drama which portray murders and other violent or controversial emotionally-charged scenarios. Would you have a problem with your partner watching that because it encourages them to think about something you...
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