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    Polyamory perspective on internet porn?

    Anyone who tries to dictate to me how i masturbate or what i think about when i do it will get laughed at and made fun of and if they dont leave right away, they will get a show-and-tell. I find this thread incredibly funny: "the poly perspective on internet porn". It sounds like we're at some...
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    What is that middle ground?

    Yes lots of people on here are in mono/poly relationships and make it work. You have been on this forum for what, like a year now, and you haven't read ANYTHING about it on here? I have seen you participating in lots of discussions here and on facebook and find it hard to believe that you...
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    Polyamory perspective on internet porn?

    I wish people would chill out about teh pr0n. If you don't like it don't look at it. It's over-rated anyway.
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    Less interested in sex with SO; does this happen often during strong NRE for another?

    It's not even about NRE for me, I just like to imagine I'm getting fucked by someone else with my husband's big dick.
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    How do you manage dyads in your (closed) tryad?

    Thank you for answering without assuming i was being judgmental at you.
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    How do you manage dyads in your (closed) tryad?

    Peabean, i'm curious why you refer to the male in your triad as "husband" and the female as "girlfriend". Why don't you call her "wife". You also refer to him as "our" and to her as "your". I notice little things like this and like to examine them.
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    Less interested in sex with SO; does this happen often during strong NRE for another?

    Thanks but I don't think i'm special, at least not because i'm an asshole.
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    Less interested in sex with SO; does this happen often during strong NRE for another?

    OK, in the interest of scientific research, I asked my husband if he minded if I thought about other people while I'm fucking him. He gave me the this-must-be another-one-of-those-wacky-questions-from-that-forum-you-moderate look, and said "Of course not. I always assumed you did anyway."
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    Less interested in sex with SO; does this happen often during strong NRE for another?

    I'm equally contemptuous about everything, so don't think you're special.:) Listen, i'm sorry your wife treated you like shit and caused your life to implode and your children grief. But it's not necessary to project that on to everyone else. having seen the way you choose to express yourself...
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    Online Dating… OKCupid... what a trip. What works for you?

    I didn't mean you particularly, i was just poking snark about how people always seem to be able to find a website then they inexplicably become "computer-illiterate" when they get there, as if you need a degree in IT in order to figure out how to use a search engine or read a menu.
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    Online Dating… OKCupid... what a trip. What works for you?

    Don'tcha know, some people on this forum are not savvy like that. :rolleyes:
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    Less interested in sex with SO; does this happen often during strong NRE for another?

    DH is looking for circumstantial evidence to support whatever conclusions he has already reached.
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    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    Going through my "old" (skinny) clothes and seeing what fits again. Some of them are quite loose.
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    Less interested in sex with SO; does this happen often during strong NRE for another?

    LOL something's seriously wrong with me. What would that be, then? I get a buzz off of being cranky and contemptuous, so don't parade on my rain.
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    Less interested in sex with SO; does this happen often during strong NRE for another?

    I think it adds something to the "spark" of my long-term relationship; it's not something I do to "force" myself to have sex with my partner. It allows me to enjoy two people at once without the complications of having a threesome. Also, I don't think about another person the whole time, or...
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    Less interested in sex with SO; does this happen often during strong NRE for another?

    You're Welcome. I wish they were all this easy...
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    A little help with my story please

    You don't need the permission or approval of people on this forum to live your life as you see fit.
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    Less interested in sex with SO; does this happen often during strong NRE for another?

    Geez. Of course I don't say to one partner I'm fucking that I'm thinking about someone else. And I don't "fake" or "feign" interest. Sheesh. Believe it or not, some people actually ARE turned on by the idea of their partner thinking about or having sex with someone else. I don't rub it in...
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    Less interested in sex with SO; does this happen often during strong NRE for another?

    Yes. Caveat: There is nothing that says you can't fantasize about OSO when you're fucking your husband.
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    The Yo-Yo Effect

    No, do look at it as paying someone to listen to him lie. He has to want to change for HIMSELF, not for you and/or the kids.
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