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    My husband says he is poly., but Im not sure....

    I don't knowl where you live, but I hope you have people around you who will support YOU because you have bigger problems than whether or not for your husband's girlfriend to move in with you.
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    The Yo-Yo Effect

    Sure, take him up on the marriage counseling and pay someone else the big bucks to listen to him lie more.
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    Irene's a doozy

    It's downgraded to a tropical storm. I should have made bets on this because I'd be all ca-ching and $hit right now.
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    What to do when tertiary's needs conflict with mine. [long!]

    You have the inside track. explain for the rest of us pls.
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    What's a Resident Ghost and a Custodian?

    I sweep the floor, take out the trash, and unclog stopped toilets.
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    Which way to turn?

    If you read this blog you would know that mohegan has repeatedly said that she is completely open about all this and doesn't care who reads it. They have been posting here for a long time, so has Cricket (the "ex"). So I just find it a little odd that this is suddenly an issue. The internet...
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    Which way to turn?

    You could have just let it die and not even posted that.
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    Omniamory

    I did that for a year or two. I happened to be in love with a female so i say i " thought i was gay". But i didn"t realize i was trying to fit in, not with a gay community, but just into the world around me as a gay person, whatever the hell that was supposed to mean... I am sure this was as...
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    Omniamory

    Ya, it's just like the "child-free movement". :rolleyes: child-free movement = some people are childfree
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    Omniamory

    I put forward the term "milque-toast-amorist" for people who don't give a crap.
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    Open Discussion of "Poly Women Respond"

    I do remember that, although i didn't watch it. Just like Battlestar Galactica. I did watch Star Trek and Buck Rodgers though because my father watched those and they were on before my bedtime.
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    New to the board, not to poly

    i have no problem with primary/secondary labels as long as the people that are involved have no problem with them. I use them myself as I find convenient. That said, I can tell you've been reading on the forums already since you know this is such a hot topic and are expecting people to judge...
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    Open Discussion of "Poly Women Respond"

    Whatever. WE'll make sure we all give Sean plenty of "space". Yeah, "space". That's a good way to put it.
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    Dh asks for poly after 12 years mono marriage

    Don't do anything you don't want to do just to keep your life script marriage. "Sending" you to another guy as a "trial" is not something a "friend" does to a friend.
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    Omniamory

    Maybe this is a bit off-topic and belongs in the thread about divisiveness, but we can rearrange copy-pasta any old time round these parts. What i want to add to nyc's comment is that i find it insipid and wishy-washy when people try to agree just for the sake of fostering harmony. To me this...
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    Division in the poly community

    That isn't what I said. I said just because someone disagrees with me doesn't make ME any LESS right. It's interesting you took it this way because I was agreeing with what Autumnal Tone said. I was saying that there is a right and a wrong answer to this use of language. Re:
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    Division in the poly community

    I see a "divide in the poly community" right now, and it's not between the child-free and the child-full. It's between people who think that you can say whatever the fuck you want and have it mean anything you want any day of the week from place to place and person to person, and people who...
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    Division in the poly community

    Or you could sum it up like this: Just because we disagree doesn't make me any less right. Rawr.
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    Omniamory

    I think the term is incorrect. "omni" means "everything" and i dont think there is anyone out there who loves everything, or everyone.
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    Division in the poly community

    This is how I've always been too, but at some point i realized that I didn't even want to fit in, but people expect you to "want" to fit in. It's much healthier to focus on the activities that give me satisfaction than to think of activities as something i do to find people with whom i have...
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