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kdt26417- I honestly have never felt any negative feelings or that she doesn't want me around. Their first poly relationship with another woman ended horribly for them and she said she felt from day one she was trying to break up their marriage and wanted W all to herself and that she felt...

Well, I don't know if I would phrase it that way exactly but even if we said I was a marital aid - is that such a bad thing? She and I have become good friends and he and I have a good relationship and most of the time it honestly makes me happy to see them getting closer again - back to what I...

How things are 4 months in Hi nycindie! I've been living here with them for right at 4 months now. I have to say that this is the most difficult and rewarding experience I have ever had. Sometimes I think that even though we have a pretty good situation, maybe it's not for me because of my...

Oh my gosh, I have developed a love of zentangling! It helps for sure!

Awwww, yeah I was thinking last night that I'm going to paint my room - like this weekend - that would be the first room in the house that isn't the standard new house contractors colors lol - I have to admit I'd want to do it just for spite lol

Yes, it definitely is because I think of things like when Christmas is here and my daughter and her boyfriend come over, there is nothing (at this point) that would even remotely tell my daughter that I lived there too. I still think it's silly that I feel that way. I just need to figure out...

Thank you so much - I actually did have some other thoughts about this - My couple had an incident happen within their relationship where trust was broken and they are struggling - they have made a commitment to work on things (I have been there with them both through it all) but fortunately or...

Oh my goodness can I relate! I moved in with my couple 6 weeks ago after a year of dating. I went though every thought/emotion I thought I could ever have with moving in with them before I ever did it to make sure I'd be okay with it. But now that I'm here, I'm having issues with things that...

When I would come over for the weekends, we all shared the same bed as well - I have restless leg syndrome so being tucked in the middle would freak me out a lot of the time and I'd have to get up and go in the guest room - I knew I wanted my own room/bed when I officially moved in so I wouldn't...

That is funny - I actually had that thought as well - wondering if we could get away with having a little "shed" type structure in the back yard that would be mine and mine alone so if I wanted that stupid buffet/hutch I could have it lol!

I just moved in 6 weeks ago so haven't given this a fair chance yet - I have thought about what I'd do and where'd I go though and I love the thought of a tiny home or camper!!!

I am an avid crafter and do find myself trying to hide in my room to craft but then I feel like I'm being unsociable and my boyfriend worries when I'm "closing him out". If I really need the time I will take it and just tell him I need some space and he's fine with it but it sure seems like I'm...

I have been thinking about taking a weekend for myself somewhere...

"silly" things bothering me I guess I say silly because I'm surprised that I'm having these thoughts. The main thing at this moment that is getting to me is I guess you could say is materialistic?? When I decided to leave my marriage, I walked away from it all - the house I lovingly...

Although things are going well and this is the basically the type of situation I want to be in, now that I'm here, I'm struggling with what I think are "silly" things - things that I thought I'd thought through and worked out in advance. Just curious if anyone out there was in my situation or...

FallenAngelina - I love your outlook on this - I do see the benefit in letting go and just being but wow is that hard for me!!! I hate that about my personality- ugh. I'm going through some big transitions right now - all going okay actually but transitions none the less and my mind is on hyper...

FallenAngelina - Thanks so much for responding! I have never really considered Yoga - I will definitely look into it! Your post has made me think a lot since I read it. I need to choose to be happy or choose NOT to obsess, or like you said, choose or practice peace. It's hard too - I have to...

PolyinMT - thanks so much for responding! I have been telling myself I need more exercise, I just need to really make it happen - I think that will definitely help!

nycindie - thanks so much for your response - what you shared makes so much sense - I got a tattoo about 5 years ago that says "Enjoy the Journey" and I got it to remind myself to just calm down and breathe and just "be" - I think this is what you are saying. I am obsessing so bad right now...

kdt26417 - I totally believe in medication as well and have many times in the past gone on something for anxiety/depression while I was going through transitions. I have restless leg syndrome and as I've gotten older, taking those types of meds make my legs so much worse - I'm going to try...