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  1. ladyjools

    Abuse

    i was abused, sexually, mentally, emotionally and physically to the extent that i was left with PTSD and a disosiate disorder, has that pushed me down the path of polyamory, or this alternative life that i lead. The answer is prob yes because every event in my life has led me to this point...
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    Our feature in newspaper

    the first feature we did potrayed me as a greedy slut, so this is brilliant compared to that.
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    Our feature in newspaper

    lol you are right it does, i don't like getting my phototaken especally by someone that i don't know, none of us really enjoyed the photoshoot.
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    Our feature in newspaper

    this is 2nd one, the first one made me out to be a greedy whore, this one is not so bad. http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/woman/2865991/Juliennes-life-practising-polyamory-and-has-two-boyfriends.html#mySunComments we mainly did this for the money to pay for fertility treatment, i do not...
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    To be open or not to be

    thankyou, dispite it all, i am still glad we are open, i wouldn't change that for anything because really the people who don't like me because I am poly would never really like the real me if i was just keeping it a secret, they would only like/love the fake me and thats pointless. Jools
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    To be open or not to be

    We are out to everyone, and i mean everyone, even the people we know hate it. All 4 or our familys know, and work collegues etc... I decided to be out because I can't lie, and becaues i don't want to live a lie. I am doing nothing shameful so im not going to act like i am. That being said...
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    I have been outed!!

    I would be honest if it where my mum, but you have to make ur desision that suits you, it disgusts me that someone would do this to you, it really is pathetic and im sorry that they pushed you into this corner I hope it goes well with you Mum no matter what you decide to do Jools
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    Primary/Secondary: Merged Threads/General Discussion/Debate

    I think the problem is not with the terms and more with peoples perceptions of those terms. Originally Posted by Derbylicious I don't know if labels are a good idea in the long term, but when starting up a new relationship when you already have established relationship(s), it can be a good...
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    Primary/Secondary: Merged Threads/General Discussion/Debate

    Part of the reason I will never marry, in the traditional legal sense, is because I don't want that imbalance. So if I ever do decide to have some kind of wedding, it won't be legal. It will be more spiritual. And I will commit myself to them both. Far off in the future, though. Jools
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    Primary/Secondary: Merged Threads/General Discussion/Debate

    Personally, I do not use these labels in regards to my own relationships. However, that does not mean that I believe it’s wrong to do so, or that I cannot see the advantages of having that kind of structure in a polyamorous set-up. When I first entered into polyamory, we discussed this mode of...
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    still polyamorous today. *nod* yep.

    i LOVE being out as well and use facebook all time to post links and articles about polyamory and i am happy to be able to chat openly about my life with anyone i please :) benig out rocks!!
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    NRE (New Relationship Energy) - Merged Threads, General Discussion

    i currently have it for 2 people at same time but both energy feels diffrent though equally intense, with long term partner, the NRE has changed into a deeper yet somewhat calmer energy that is constant and something i value greatly, i guess every relationship is unique i just enjoy them for...
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    Time to write about us :)

    thankyou Tim for a really very pretty poem ;)
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    Fellow artists?

    A fun pic :) Jools
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    today is going to be a very sad day for us

    and for some reason i thought i would share hear with you guys that our baby was meant to be born today. My due date was Jan 14th. He was born and died on Jul 29th at 10.23pm at 16 weeks gastation due to an infection in my womb that brought on premature labour, we named him Samson. He was a...
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    Time to write about us :)

    I've been hear a while and haven't got round to it yet and so maybe it is about time. First off all I am an exceptionally lucky woman because I am surounded by 3 people that love me. I do not use the terms primary and secondary, nobody in my life is more important than the other. My longest...
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    Just been asked to join a poly relationship...

    It sounds to me like they are very new to this, and there are a few alarm bells: "proving that there will be no jealousy," for one. I wouldn't say run away, just be cautious and ask lots of questions and maybe even direct them to this forum! Jools
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    Theoretical vs reality

    First, I want to say that I think this thread is very appropriate and useful for this forum. I know that some people will find it offensive, and we will all have strong opinions on this matter, but it is def useful to learn from each other and see different points of view! I have been in the...
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    Word Association Game!

    alpa
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    Word Association Game!

    mag pie
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