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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rs7E8HSgQy4 it made the 3 or us laugh so thought id share :) Jools

thanks, i get very busy so thats why i disapear sometimes :)

I really like the third one, :) your very talented.

"I'd rather be hated for who I am than loved for who I am not" " In much the same way the lottery is a tax on people who don't understand statistics, 'The One' is an emotional tax on the same." "Secrets are to sickness as openness is to healing"

I know my purpose, I know where my life needs to go and I know how to do it. I don't mean I have a "plan". I don't. I mean-I just know... I just FEEL in any given moment "I'm supposed to do this" or "I'm not supposed to do that" and I need to DO or NOT DO those things and stop letting other...

This is something i really relate too. My feelings are very intense and i know can most def be overwhelming for others, I think sometimes they are overwhelming for montianboy who is more contained than I am. I have to remember that not everyone is like this. With R i think he is as intense...

Congrats to you both. It's very obvious you guys are much respected and liked on this forum. You have given me lots of interesting food for thought. Happy anniversary, Jools

I can SO relate to this. One of things I love about being so openly poly is that I CAN talk about my life and how happy I am and why. I want to tell my friends how lovely R has been, how much I am looking forward to him moving in, and how content I feel when they are both together and getting on...

I spoke to my Mum on the phone last night, it was a general phone call to wish her a happy new year. R was here with me and montianboy was not, I think I did ok with this phone call, she went back over some of her worrys etc and hinted at not being willing to meet R. Rather than get angry or...

feel free to talk about your own situation, as 2 heads are better than one to come up with any kind of solution, i am thinking of phoning my mum soon, at least to wish her a happy new year, i will talk about montianboy and R as normal and see how she reacts but im guessing she will be telling...

From reading some of your previous posts i think we might, lol or at least if i did have a child i am pretty certian my own mother would do exactly the same. he doesn't HAVE to move in, there are other options, if i had kids he would not be moving in now. There is still NRE, but i am also...

i think lots of other people have made some very good points, i don't have much to add but just wanted to say that i in similar situation with my Mum and other family, and friends and anyone else who feels they have a right to judge me, I've heard it won't work so many times iv lost count Jools

Thankyou this is really good advice, and at some point i think i will contact them to try and find out more. At the moment this is not on the cards because we just lost a baby, there are major changes happening in my poly family and we would need to be very settled before taking on this...

thankyou for those words of encoragment, i think sometimes just hearing other people say that its ok to do what is best for me even if its dispaointing someone else is exactly what i need, i am far to ready to please other people but with this i just can't give up my life and the men that i...

This is exactly where I am at, my relationship with R is becoming now that he is more than just someone i am dating and he is becoming part of my family, so montianboy, and R will take priorty as they are my family unit, Its good you can see the positive with this but also i agree it is sad...

I have always been openly Poly, My Mum and Step Dad know that i have other partners and so does Montianboy. Everyone in my life knows that I am poly I refuse to make it a secret or something taboo. I know that my Mum doesn't aprove of this lifestyle. It bothers her a lot and we end up often...

hope everyone had a lovley christmas :)

I think I feel much more comfortable with this philosophy, though I do understand that not everyone who chooses not to share details is ultimately insecure. In my own life, I think that if I am avoiding talking about something, then it's usually because I have an underlying issue around it...

I read on another thread about DADT, and didn't want to hijack it. I am curious about this, because. for me, I want to know. I do ask lots of questions (mainly because I'm nosey), even if sometimes the answers make me react a certain way. I may feel insecure or jealous. I think that's ok because...

thanks thats an intresting point, i would worry though that they might get that info from someone else, about us being poly because i think that they interview people who know you and someone could easily let that slip, this is a long way off, just something i am thinking about, Jools