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i hope you get the chance to relax and enjoy the moment on your time away ((((((((hugs))))))))) Jools

I can say that i have had one proper breakup where i never wanted to see the person again, but that is because he hurt me physically (tried to choke the life out of me) and so when i told him that we where breaking up i meant it in other relationships, iv usually stayed friends on some level...

i know it varys a lot, i just wondered if anyone knew anything at all, not putting it on application for us prob won't work in future as we will eventually all be living under one roof and we are openly poly, everybody knows, work, family, neighbours, friends etc so there good chance that they...

I was wondering if anyone knew anything about how possible it would be to adopt in future if you live in a poly family, this isn't something that im planning on doing right now, but it is something i would consider in the future and there seem to be little or no information out there. I am...

i think its very likley that being poly or mono has something to do with DNA however much like sexuality i think there is sometimes no black and white more a scale, some people are very straight others are def very gay, but there are many more people somewhere in the middle of those extreems...

I have a disosiative disoder and that would def concern me, i am into BDSM a little however all my partners are aware of cues that i am starting to disoisate and will stop imediatly if they think that this is happening, Jools

I have three lovers, all of whom are very important to me. I'd say they are all primary, but I hate the term. I was aiming for two, but then the third popped into my life unexpectedly and I did not want to turn him away. I am coping with three at moment, but having to be very careful how I...

i am highly sexed, so sex is big part of my relationships. I tend to go through phases though when i have lots and when i have not as much, but, i do value intamicy in other ways prob as much sometimes more than i value the sex. I need the other connections more, the hugs, the shared intrests...

sorry getting confused so that why replied in wrong bit :) friends are good especially people intrested or who are poly.

So i have a mini vent some threads ago about feeling insecure about R going off for the weekend with the other girlfriend who is not technically a girlfriend but is sorta in that role (complicated) i was feeling insecure, and very aware of my insecurity and i spent the weekend working on that...

We would like to have children. I actually just had a baby 4 months ago that was born still. I would like to try again, though the idea of it terrifies me at the moment. We had decided to always be honest with our children about our life, no secrets. R and C would be involved in the upbringing...

I'm not sure if it's for me, but I would never rule it out. There is part of me that is sort of curious. However, have never had sex with someone I don't have feelings for, and so it would be kind of strange for me to do that. I don't even know any swingers in real life. I think if we where...

thankyou, i am just figuring out this forum and so just saw your message here and new friends are always good :) Jools

i agree with what others have said, safe sex is a must, and everyone getting an STD test is also a good idea, for me i have no problem with it being so open but i hate the time primary and secondary, i let the relationships i have develop into whatever they will be without those labels, my...

i agree with you completely, but for some reason, there is that urge to live together. i'm not sure if its social pressure or if it's nature to nest. at the moment, i live with montainboy, and i'd say we are pretty successful with the living arrangements, in the sense that if we do argue it's...

Already here... for M When we meet again I won't be disappointed. rousing with you're arms around me Will be flesh, and bone, heart and soul… setting together like jelly, a mass of solid, waiting to be pulped, consumed, till I am left alone vomiting up rainbows, Just like before, maybe...

thankyou for link, its one i already have in my favs its a very useful resource for all things poly :) So tonight is first night i know he is sharing a room with her, i will say honestly, that i am feeling insecure i am having moments of panic and fear but i feel like thats ok. Choosing to...

i remind myself all the time im not that little girl, You seem so brave compared to me, because of the mental health issues, sometimes i really am that little girl, (its hard to explain) i am really lucky that i trust the men that i am with, none of them would hurt me, i am going to try to...

i wouldn't say im running around doing whatever i want, if i was doing that id be simply seeing M right now because thats what i want and not really caring how montianboy feels, as it stands we are taking things very slow, i have only made contact with M over the phone and its been 6 months of...