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    Looking how to find a relationship

    We're in the same boat... I was looking for the same advice...we have tried OKCupid and many other websites...is there something more specific to meeting like minded people. We are patient, but just feel like we hit a bunch of dead ends. Any advice...we are in the NY area...about 1 hour North...
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    poly or swinging

    Been there... In the past I have been in the swingers lifestyle. It was something that was fun. satisfying for the moment. It was never about random sex. I think in five years of being in the lifestyle, we only had two one-night stands. We'd go out with the same couples for dinner and sex in an...
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    Questions about being Poly

    Open Mind Well, I am glad to have made someone's night! I think to be able to even consider this kind of relationship, you have to at the very least have an open mind. I am here to learn, to enhance my life and the life of my relationship and I know that this is not going to be easily...
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    Questions about being Poly

    Thanx! Wow...I am totally enamored with the responses...so thought out, so much info and now, so much to ponder. I do see all these points, they seem valid, logical and reasonable. Just never thought of it...I think I just figured that myself and partner were so in-tune, that adding another...
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    Questions about being Poly

    I just joined this website yesterday and have some questions, maybe someone would be kind enough to shed some light for me. My partner and I are bi-sexual, in a mono relationship for 11 years, with some alternative lifestyle activities in the swinging world. We were unsatisfied with that, and...
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    Personal Summaries

    I am Vanessa...I am new to this website...42 years old...in a mono relationship, with a few yearly attempts down the swingers road, but that isn't the lifestyle we are looking for. We are both bi-sexual, my partner isn't as forward with that statement as I am. We have lived a mostly, peaceul and...
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    New in NY

    Guess I should say, also that we are not married...he is opposed after being burned in his first marriage...I am open to it again...he is 50 and I am 42...we both have two daughters from our first marriages the oldest being 21 and youngest 12...
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    New in NY

    Hi all...new to this forum, new to the idea of polyamory...I am in a commited relationship for the last 11 years, we are both bi-sexual, he doesn't admit it as readily as I do...we have dabbled once or twice a year in swinger encounters...which were fun, but unsatisfying in the long run! I am...
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    I am new to this website and new to the idea of polyamory...I am wondering, if what I am looking...

    I am new to this website and new to the idea of polyamory...I am wondering, if what I am looking for really exists, I am in a committed relationship with the same man for the past 11 years. We are both bi-sexual...he is not as open about it as I am...we have enjoyed a swingers lifestyle maybe...
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