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Update/Question :D Well everyone, it's official. Wifey and Nikki have takin their relationship to the next level. They have decided that they are now in a committed relationship with each other, titles and all... My question is, now that they are at this point, do I talk to them about making...

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Update! Things are going better. We had a group counseling session and some things came out. Now Wifey's and Nikki's relationship is thriving. I am still not involved in their relationship, but Wifey and I are doing well in our relationship, too.

I feel like you guys are beating me up. I need a break from all of this.

Well, this is the arrangement that worked best when we were all involved from the beginning. Now that Wifey knows that I love Nikki, I feel like she is putting a roadblock in front of a turtle. But our prior arrangement was purely sexual. Nikki and I have always had feelings for one another...

AWWW! :eek: I Just don't know if I have the patience for this. It feels like my Wife is purposely taking her sweet-ass time with moving forward because she knows I'm waiting. I think the reason she is moving like a turtle is because she knows I love Nikki and thinks that I will be putting all my...

Oh I was saying that I was doing this subconsciously I had no idea I was doing this until I knew I was doing it... The grand invite is when Wifey is ready to be in a triad (all of us together). I am not romantically involved with Nikki at this point. I'm waiting until they're ready. No, that...

Ciel, I'm not sure I understand what you mean by "keeping score." Both Nikki and Wifey are very passive, so their relationship is progressing really slowly. Meanwhile, I am waiting around for the grand invite! I am very forward, aggressive, and outspoken, so I see opportunities where...

:) This is the actually what everyone in our circle of friends and family calls her. There is a funny story behind it.

Nikki and I took Wifey out to her favorite restaurant and a movie (midnight showing of Alice in wonderland). We all held hands and shared each others love. ;)

After the long deep conversation between the three of us, Nikki and Wifey had a conversation one-on-one the next day. During our group conversation, it was identified that Wifey wasn't able to develop romantic feelings for Nikki because I reverted my relationship with Wifey to the same level...

You and your wife are in a partnership. If you and Gemma can not come to a happy middle ground, then polyamory will never work for you and her. I personally like to live on the wild side, dive right in and figure things out in the moment. That can sometimes work for me, and other times not...

We have to drive about 1 1/2 hours to see our councilor. Some of them do phone sessions. I would recommend an in person session for the first visit and then you can take it from there.

mobiusproductsandservices go to their website Good stuff...I would like to know what you would have engraved on it.

I feel like this is turning into a soap opera "A Day in the Life of a Poly Triad." We all had a very open communication session and aired out a lot of things. We are not back on the path to a poly triad. We will be seeing a poly-friendly counselor.

Hello all, I have bad news and it's not sitting well with me. Wifey has decided that she does not want to have a poly relationship because she can't deal with the fact that Nikki and I are in love. During this dating process, she and Nikki have been in, she has blocked herself from having...

Thank you for all your suggestions I will take all your thoughts into consideration. I was looking at a bracelet that looks like a wedding band and because its a flat surface so I was thinking about engraving terms that are important to a good relationship. Example...

+1 on this. Also, if Baron were an idiot, I don't think you would be going out and purchasing a "Being an Idiot for Dummies" book. Look at it this way. If you took him out of the scenario, would you still feel the need to change or be better then you are? If your answer is yes, then I commend...

I am definitely feeling the difficulty, which was expected. I just didn't think it would be so early. I am very comfortable with confrontation. I love a good debate. I love talking out my issues. The problem is that I am also very passionate with my ideas. I think all of them through and present...

If my feelings are being expressed, doesn't it go without saying that I want things to change? Just expressing how I feel will not solve the issue. This is how I am feeling now. So I bite back my words and I don't express myself the way I would like to. The truth is that you might not have...