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Thanks for sharing these! :)

Today, I am grateful simply for the opportunity and understanding of the possibility to love multiple partners. I am grateful for my wife's opportunity to do the same. I've given up on designs. I suppose i like the ideas of "polyflexible" and "polyconsiderate"

Hi Izzy! I'm Jim. Congrats on the new triad. Welcome to the forum.:)

Janelle, I'm Jim. First, congratulations on your relationship with T. :) Best of luck with P. Marvin makes an excellent point. Additionally, i would consider T's feelings if P agrees to proceed but starts treating you in a neglectful way and falls back into old habits (or worse, new bad...

Hi Blu. :) I'm Jim. From personal experience, I'd say the best approach is honesty without expectations. Frank is likely to have some strong opposition, and even make a good case to keep things as they are. You state he is open-minded, and if he is, the initial conversation won't be the last...

Wow.... Long term deception, cowardice, manipulation, lies, total abuse of your trust, disregard for the love you've shown him. Any asshole can force someone into a cage and treat them poorly. That is hardly Mastery and it is definitely not poly. I am ordinarily an advocate of working...

Hey BG. Please dont take this as a sycophantic comment. Nancy and I both enjoy the living shit out of reading the things you post. You frequently have us both in stitches. lol

Hi, Egoscout. I'm Jim. I just did this scenario. My gf at work, Stretch, entered into a relationship with me under the guise of a breakup. She failed to mention when said breakup was over. Then she claimed she wanted to continue with me. I said I wouldn't continue unless her bf was informed of...

Hi Murphy, I'm Jim. I'm feeling for you in your struggle. GalaGirl is right though, it takes a ton of trust and courage for him to be honest. I know you are shocked and shaken by his requests. Those are valid feelings. Take heart that, unlike many who have posted here, your husband appears to...

Hi Tyler! I am Jim. I hope you enjoy this forum as much as we do.

Hello to both of you and welcome to the forum. I'm Jim. It's a great place with tons of info and many people with good ideas and suggestions. Best of luck!

Hi Brit! I am Jim. Welcome to the forum. :)

Yay!! Kay, I'm quite stoked to read that you are handling this very well. I, like you, have an inherent need to process feelings that are limiting me and move on. I think you are handling all of this incredibly well, and i look forward to hearing updates as they come. Hang in there, girl. :) Jim

hello! Hello Dormouse. I'm Jim. It's nice to meet you and have you on the forum. Many happy returns.

hello! Hi MovieGeek and Windego13! I'm Jim. Welcome to the forum.

Whether it be your partner (she loves you) or your friend (she cares for your friendship) I would think each of them would be thankful to know your thoughts as they change, intensify, your feelings get yucky, etc. I'd sit back, work to understand my feelings, and wait for the appropriate time...

also, i explode profusely :o

Get your minds out of the gutter. It's because I'm a mechanic

Along came Poly...err Polly*...duh

triple threat Hi KayFin, I'm at a loss for advice to give on your situation. I'll definitely be following this thread, though. I had never considered the compounded inner trouble potentially brought on by the stack of insecurity+jealousy+competitive nature with a friend to whom your love is...