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Hello! Hi Kayfin, I'm Jim. I read your second post before your intro, and then I came here to say hello. If there's any place for you to find advice that helps, i would wager you're in the right one. Best wishes, jim

Hello! Hi to the three of you. I'm Jim. Much happiness for the triad's success!

Hello! Hi FreeLoveDove! I am Jim I think knowing what we are and that we aren't the only ones is a tremendous relief! I feel much the same as you expressed above. Its a pleasure to meet you.

Yes, I chose to come here from Honolulu to marry Nance. This place is "the other paradise" :D

All brevity and seriousness (and some punctuation) discarded, there are days when i read this thread and feel all the exhaustion and stress the relationship must be imparting on those involved. I applaud your commitment to the process. :)

Hello! Hello Kiwigirl! I am Jim. It's very nice to meet you, and so far, i think your story is really cool! Many happy returns to all of you. jim

Trouble Hi Stephanie, I am Jim. My heart goes out to you for the feelings you are in the midst of. You're clearly in a big struggle. The way your husband has delivered this information bluntly (and probably without being completely forthright,) is hurtful. It is very possible to love more...

Hello! Hi Elizabeth and Kenny!

R- I have lied in the past. I have concealed things. I have cheated. I have done these things to people I loved very much. I also did these things to myself, by trying in vain to be something different. I spent years feeling like a horrible person for wanting more. The alternative was feeling...

Transparency is key. Trust comes from knowing that the answers you receive from your partner are every bit as valuable and true as what you might read in their texts, and hopefully supersedes the need to actually read them.

Cuts both ways Jill, "Friendly fire" is when those who are on your side accidentally shoot you. Though the bullets come from your ally, they are nonetheless bullets. There is nothing friendly about bullets. They hurt. I realize that Lia probably didn't intend to hurt anyone, but it doesn't...

I think Vixtoria makes an excellent point about one person just throwing out conditions or rules as law. That never works for long. I would also caution people from phrasing suggestions in ways that their partner(s) could easily mistake for rules. I have made that mistake myself. Nance and I...

Hello! Hi Jillybean and Choctaw :) My name is Jim. It's nice to meet you. Accidental deception completely sucks. Regardless of what you hear on CNN, there is no such thing as "friendly fire." That is a fact. Anyhow, Hi and welcome. Jim

Hello! Hi, I am Jim. You sound like the female version of me. That is both alarming and reassuring. :D I'm new here on this site and always looking for friends and people to talk to. Guilt sucks. Freedom doesn't. A big part of true freedom is having a venue and a support system that can handle...

Hello! Hi, Donna. Its nice to meet you. i am Jim.

Hello! Hey there, I am Jim. Very nice to meet you. I'm new to the site as well. :)

Hi Marvin! Hi Marvin. Welcome. It would appear we joined at the same time and I am looking forward to sharing ideas. Take Care Jim

the intricate juxtaposition of actions and words Tsukune, I empathize with all involved on this one. My advice would be to remember that to many people, actions are far more important and meaningful than words. She may hear your words of reassurance and simultaneously find a contradiction in...

Hello, My name is Jim. I am very happily married to nancyfore. We are a poly couple. I am 41. I suppose i was poly long before i knew there was a name for it. I am fortunate to have found a wonderful wife who has patiently educated me and encouraged me. I was reluctant to embrace it and act on...