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I tend to be the odd one out on the lower scale when this question is raised. And people are astonished to hear how few there have been in my life. I just say "Well, that's all I needed, I was always satisfied and didn't miss a thing up to now." and that settles it. I don't care honestly as long...

Outed Yes, Miss Indie, I know it, but 'the world' sometimes doesn't seem to be able to see it. But your comment made me smile as well, so thanks for that. We have had another rough encounter on the 'coming out' front. Or better: a 'being outed' evening. Sward and I have been asked to help...

But you already told us, that you aren't officially married as it is impossible to do so in most states and countries. So if there is no official side to your marriage and no religious one, what is it that you regard as marriage? (Honestly confused, is there another form of marriage out there?)

I don't quite understand your point. If you are not religious, what meaning does marriage bear for you to be so keen on it?

Thanks for your answer. Maybe it's history related (*waves* a German is talking here :rolleyes:), but the only way I heard of this 'believe system' (WPWW) things came across very ... racialistic and supermacist-like. That's the cause for my uneasiness here. But it's a whole nother story if you...

Hey, welcome. I would like to ask a question on something not poly related. Your profile picture. I am extremely cautious in regard to those ... I will go with calling it a group or organisation for now, as I don't yet know how you relate to it and how you are involved. Why did you choose this...

It's Sward and my anniversary today. Twelve years already. Feels like less, definitely. Not much I can talk about though. I love going out with him and we will go to our favorite Greek restaurant later this evening. I noticed that the feel is different when going out with Sward or with Lin. It's...

Hey MrFFR Didn't know that you were following it, but good to hear from the silent readers as well ^.^ Don't stress yourself too much, I know that you have difficulties with your internet access in general. Looking forward to hear from you and the ideas and yome of your possible flashes of...

Always with you, Annabel ;) Just a bit silent lately.

V-Dynamics Yeay, some poly related things happening again :o I always feel kind of normal and reassured when we encounter those little traps. Another pitfall discovered on our way to eternal poly-happiness! (^.-) This has happened some days ago and I stopped pondering about it on Tuesday...

Thanks :) I was wondering about the 'misspelling' and why such a word made it to the English vocabulary :rolleyes: On topic: I think he is. But as others said, I have never heard of the parameters of his relationships or if the women are/were allowed to have relationships outside this...

Sorry, totally off topic: Is this an English phrase/word by now? Just wondering.

Ah, well that sounds familiar. That is another of those basic things when first confronted with poly: there are some who seem to have a better handle of the emotional side of it and some that are more comfortable with the physical part. I have both concepts 'at home' as my boyfriend has had no...

Please note that there is not 'one' kind of poly. You will find many different approaches with many different ways of living some kind of poly in everyday life. Don't assume that people have to see the whole concept like you do just because they lead some kind of poly relationship. There are...

Ah dear, how I know that dilemma. Just too well actually :) It was my main problem when things started with Lin. We are just like you and T, Lin was the new comer as well (kind of, as we knew each other for years already). We enjoy heated discussions, we play the same type of games, we love to...

Life is great I am feeling great and doing really fine. I have had some moments of inner calm and pure bliss occasionally over the past weeks that can be summed up by “Life is awesome, love is awesome, my little family is awesome!”. Therefore I didn't quite know how to update this blog, as...

Does she want this free reign? Is she even interested in more than just sex? I know that things should be equal ideally, but sometimes you need a certain time of unequalness to reach a comfortable place. It happens often in poly relationships that one person (who is the more at-ease-one in...

1. My response was directed to your question to NYCIndie where you asked what the funny thing was that made her spill her coke. 2. Words: I would strongly advice you to think about using the exact words you mean when describing your situation or thoughts. Words have meaning and socially...

To not keep you guessing evan: Because of the uniqueness of you and us all the poly-hood out there, I guess. Not that I want to convince you of the strangeness of such an idea (I read about some discussion going on in another thread already), but you won't find that many people on here who share...

Hey :) Great that you two are checking in again, good to hear about your progress. Congradulation ^.^ Good news all over the place as it seems; glad to hear about this, I was wondering how life has been for you.