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So we tried for our second communication meeting yesterday! EGAD!! It went something like this: C: When you (meaning me) are happy, then everyone is happy. It is simple. I don't have any issues. Hubby: Yeah, it has been going well lately. I am cool. Me: Well, I am good too. We had talked about...

I hear ya TL. So sorry it isn't working out today. Maybe, just maybe, the blended mix needs to age a bit; you know, just sit there and wait a bit. Today was a weird day for us too. I was strong mentally, which is always a good thing, but C was 'off' and quiet and so hard to figure out. She had...

Yes! I agree!! Words to live by! :D

It is such an interesting thought, that there are so MANY types of Love,yet only one word to capture them all!! I have been doing so much reflection lately on this word, and this feeling and have come to understand the "NRE" as a more complete word. My dog, the LUST, the WANT, the DESIRE, the...

Fabulous TL...ENJOY ALL THE RIDES!! :)

Wow...love both of your replies, anotherbo and ak. Thank you!! :) I guess part of this whole thing is learning to accept yourself as you are. I find myself chanting to myself - in between my my newfound breathing techniques ;) - "I am okay", "in fact, I am pretty damn good". ;) Part of the...

Better communication via therapy sessions Is this how it is suppose to work? Hehe I thought I would share some of my session notes from yesterday. It's sort of cool that I live in a pretty diverse city with so many great resources at my fingertips. I am using them all now! I told the...

Are you kidding me??? Easy!! I have lost 10 pounds (9% of body weight!!), had a pounding chest, nausea and swirling tornadoes of emotion for over a month now - obviously, off and on! I truly am not sure why I am still hanging on for dear life....but maybe just maybe I am actually learning...

I was probably in a similar spot to your wife, very unsure, if not against the whole concept. However, my hubby kept listening to podcasts and gaining new info. Sometimes on road trips we listened to them together. He never pushed... just, um, quietly talked. Apparently I listened. When a friend...

Thanks Sage, you seem really good with this stuff! Lots of practice?? ;) What I want is to relax. I know - logically - that we are ALL good with each other, but it seems that logic has little room at times! Which is odd, since I am very logic based (programmer). I bought 100 bucks worth of...

Well, since this is the 'Roller Coaster' thread....here comes the down......CRASH! As mentioned, Friday was outstanding, and Saturday day was great. C and hubby hung out a bit and had a nice time! I arrived home with dinner, and unbenounced to me, C left to get home herself, and told me that...

Devout Atheist. :)

Not 'quite' the same scenario for us, but soooo similar! I am trying to NOT focus or 'care,' or maybe 'observe' with an open mind 'their' conversations and intimacy, but to NOT freak out! It was pointed out to me today that part of this issue most likely stems from my need to 'direct' or...

Thanks Sage! It is so strange for someone other than my hubby to see my raw self...a self that I am not too proud of at times! Actually, embarassed of, as I fight to maintain control. If anyone HAS any tips on LETTING go of the tight grip, please help. I know that I need to let go but it is...

Thanks for the post RP. Very good listen. I also liked the part of the Orgasmic release of a NATURAL high, making you feel like you are in love! I think that this has been one of the things within our Triad that has been confusing....when everyone orgasms, all is right with the world and we...

Hi there, So our story is one where we met a friend of a friend at the pub, back in March. My hubby, me (the wife) and her, all hit it off famously. She and I ended up hanging out together A LOT. One night at a dinner party, we were the last to leave and she came up to both of us, turned to me...

Thanks, Ari. Maybe that is the confusing part. It started with me and my close girlfriend, and of course Hubby jumped in when offered. Little did I know that my NRE/lust for C would far be surpassed by that of C and the hubby, leaving me with a nice healthy dose of rejection. Yeah, I am working...

Well, I am not very good on the lingo yet. I am the wife in the wife, husband, girlfriend scenario. So I think that I am the hinge, and she is the leg, right? Or is the husband the hinge cuz he is attached to both? So confusing. I am 'attached' to both strongly, but the girlfriend is 'in love'...

Thanks for the words of encouragement everyone! Very nice and waaaay better than talking to the other two about it right now! I am exhausted with the round about talk! Egad. I just want to take a pulse check with you all. Friday night was fabulous. I 'let' the two of them 'date,' so to speak...

OMG, Spirit, words to live by!! Thank you...I will recite often!