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We're finally coming out to our friends this weekend, and I'm really excited... and nervous. A few of our closest friends already know, and have been really accepting and at least understand why being poly is right for us, even if they wouldn't want it for themselves. But we have some...

www.lovemore.com was helpful to me. :)

The Notebook. Both of her men are seriously attractive and love her in different ways, bringing different things to her life. Maybe it wouldn't have been as "Hollywood Romantic," but still.

Welcome! I hope you find the answers you're looking for. And I think you're brave for accepting and loving your husband for his differences. If he is as open-minded as you have been for him, which it sounds like he would be, it'll probably go well for you. :)

I completely agree. Which is why we haven't done anything, and why I think he's going to have to talk to his wife before anything would even be possible. I don't want to be a part of cheating. :( Edit: I could have been more clear. I don't see a way around his lying to his wife, which means...

I've never been totally satisfied being mono. I guess I'm just wired to be poly. To my immense satisfaction, my fiance agrees with the philosophy behind being poly, and is happy with our decision, and has yet to be jealous. We're polywogs, though not poly virgins. I have a friend (“S”) whose...

:) Hi Mono. No worries about posting to that guy. I'm new to the forum but I thought that even hearing other people's ideas can help you find what's right for you. *shrug* You have a beautiful family! Thanks for sharing them with me. :)

Sounds like you're having a rough time of it. :( Studying abroad is really exciting, though, and if it's for an area of study that you love and will help in your future, your husband will likely be supportive; he sounds like a supportive, wonderful husband. I lived away from my fiance for 5...

I completely agree! I've had friends ask if my primary and I are looking for lovers just because we decided to be poly. Before our lovers came into our lives, we we had decided that being poly suited us, but we weren't actively looking for people. It wouldn't seem right to me to actively search...

Congrats! I'm happy for you guys. :) Sounds like you have some wonderful loves there.

It seems that you're trying to justify how good of a boyfriend you've been to your lady, and I don't think that's the issue. Wanting to love someone else too doesn't mean that you've somehow been unable to fulfill and satisfy her sexually. It sounds like she does love you and is wanting to...

My name is Raven and I'm currently a 21-year-old senior Biology major at a private liberal arts university in the Pacific Northwest. As a biologist, I've always wondered why humans seem determined to deny their animal instincts in as many areas of their lives as they can. I've never felt...