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I happen to agree with ShrodingersCat that your rule 2 is controlling. MUST ALWAYS BE available for sex doesn't sound like a relationship to me, more like sexual slavery. There are plenty of times I haven't felt like sex and my partners have NEVER pressured me. I would like to know how you...

Sandworm

And as for the "I love you's", I don't see that as being an issue, though I understand that it makes you feel insecure. And that is probably because your needs are being ignored at the moment. The love usually flows both ways in poly, at least it does in mine. I tell hubby I love him, and I...

Nursey, is there NO willingness on your husband's part to compromise and schedule things so that BOTH you and the g/f get your needs met, at least equally? Hell, if anything, you're the primary and should get the lion share of your hubby's time. That's how my b/f and I work it out with our...

Devin Townsend Project - Epicloud That album makes me happy for some reason :)

Doing alright, thanks :) Welcome to the forum!

I'm frustrated.. New job stress plus health issues, and everyone conspiring to make my weekend miserable. Just wanna hide in a hole today. :(

Darwin :)

Secondary isn't easy for me When I love, I tend to do so with all my heart. So I've struggled in the same way as you, WhatHappened. Now my situation is a bit different in that I have both a primary and a secondary partner...and so does my secondary. We're each other's secondary I guess...

I love Repo! :cool: Currently listening to Mumford and Sons latest album 'Babel'. :)

It seems that maybe she wasn't all that poly to begin with or perhaps has some unspoken fears/reservations about the lifestyle. Maybe it's because she isn't involved with anyone at the moment...but whatever her motives are, you need to have a frank and open discussion about it with her. Does...

Some changes After 14 years at the same company, I get to start a new job this coming week. And I'm REALLY nervous (and excited too). I mean, I haven't had to impress anybody for a LONG while (as I could pretty much do my job in my sleep). But it was time to leave...too many things had turned...

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Tired.. Considering I'm off work for a week of vacation with the family, I'm not nearly as bouncy as I should be. I've actually been feeling kind of down today and tired. Tired of feeling like I'm swimming upstream in my relationships. Hubby is making a lot of new friends lately who are a...

carnal

My husband has been going through a somewhat similar situation. He has had a handful of short-lived friend w/benefit type of relationships but nothing that has the same romantic involvement as what I share with my boyfriend and it has caused him some hurt feelings, jealousy, envy and stressed...

Drained.. I've been having a lot of issues with my teenage daughter the past few days. Her disposition goes from sullen and depressed to full out screaming drama and threats over the smallest perceived slight; it's been a roller coaster. Also, Hubby has been struggling with not being able to...

Rosetta