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    When the kids are not taking poly well...

    I agree with Nycindie here... I know as parents we want to put our kids first always, but so long as you're still taking care of them and giving them all the love, support and attention they need, there should still be room for you and your spouse to have the relationships you want/need in your...
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    Word Association Game!

    Transformation.. Indeed :)
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    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    Best of luck...hope it all works out :)
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    Do you feel jealousy?

    I wish I was completely secure and devoid of jealousy. But no, I'm not that lucky. I have, from time to time, felt it and struggled with it but I think I'm dealing with it well. I try to get at the source of why I feel it and work on myself to effect the changes required to become free of it...
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    Jealousy, Envy, Insecurity, etc.: Merged Threads, General Discussion

    Fiona, I hear what you're saying about not wanting all the NRE to go to his newest relationship. NRE is a great high, and I still enjoy a lot of it with my bf. But fact of the matter is, NRE doesn't last forever. At some point your relationship will transition to the more settled kind, with...
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    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    Still alive, not quite kicking yet. Getting over this horrible plague (chest cold turned bronchitis) I had...and already missing my adorable metalhead boyfriend who's away out of town for a few days with his mates...I'm hopeless :)
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    Tats & Piercings?

    I have 3 tattoos...upper back, left calf and right ankle.
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    Poly is definitely not for everyone... And no matter your chosen path, I wish you only the best :)

    Poly is definitely not for everyone... And no matter your chosen path, I wish you only the best :)
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    Trust is so easily broken and so hard to get back...I'm so very sorry your past partners...

    Trust is so easily broken and so hard to get back...I'm so very sorry your past partners deceived you. Take some time to find out what you need/look for in a relationship and maybe seek some outside help/perspective. Do you have some trusted friends you can talk to, or maybe even access to...
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    Word Association Game!

    Butterfly
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    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    Mostly awful.. I've been battling this nasty chest cold/cough for over a week now, the kind that makes you almost wish you were dead. The mates had it earlier, even the kids went through it and survived. But I have asthma and it's doing a real number on my lungs. I hate having to sleep in...
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    I'm truly sorry to hear how things have turned out for you and your wife. No one deserves to be...

    I'm truly sorry to hear how things have turned out for you and your wife. No one deserves to be treated this way...plus have their secrets outed for them out of spite. It'll take some time to mourn the loss of what you thought you had...I only hope you can find a way to come out stronger and...
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    What are you listening to now?

    Rammstein.
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    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    In a weird funk.. On the outside, most things seem okay...but I feel really awkward and out of sorts today, for no real reason. Little things that should mean nothing are bothering me and causing me to re-evaluate some relationship stuff. I wish the doom and gloom feeling in the pit of my...
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    Word Association Game!

    Landslide.
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    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    Doing a bit better...all misunderstandings were cleared up and I had a wonderful weekends with my mates :) Not looking forward to this week at work though...it's going to be a long and painful one. I just hope it goes by fast. Also, wondering why my hubby feels the need to fib and hide things...
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    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    Feel like an idiot...just put my foot in my mouth again, so to speak. Why the fuck can't I express my feelings any better? Every time I try to, I end up pissing off people I care about. And now I just wanna crawl under a rock :(
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    Polys not jealous?

    It's reassuring to know that feeling jealousy is 'okay', even as poly. Sometimes I think I'm not allowed to feel it (and feel ashamed when I do), or that I should strive to eliminate it completely. Well damnit, it doesn't work that way! I too will likely feel threatened if/when one of my...
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    What are you listening to now?

    But who's counting...lol. And yeah I read up on Gojira to find out which album was considered their best work before downloading it. I wanted to get the best first impression possible...and I did :)
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    Word Association Game!

    Magic.
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