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Feeling a bit worn out. Roller coasters can be super fun, sure, but the solid ground when you finally get off feels pretty nice too. I think I need a vacation. :cool:

Meshuggah - Koloss (just love the track "Break Those Bones Whose Sinews Gave It Motion" for some reason..) Gojira - From Mars to Sirius (really high quality metal..and they're French too. Surprised me in a good way.) **Thanks for that suggestion Somegeezer :)

Give her time.. Your wife likely reacted poorly out of fear and hurt. All she likely got out of your conversation was that she's not good enough for you anymore. Be compassionate and patient with her. As you said, you've felt poly for a LONG time and you've been thinking and contemplating...

B Buffy :)

Sometimes, it's all about the little things :)

B Brunhilda

Bald ;)

Welcome to the board. Hope you find it as helpful as I have :)

Wow, that sounds so much like my own situation it's funny... Down to the weekly group dates with our mates, lol. And like you, we've had to find ways around all that chaos for some quiet times, but it's been worth it :) Good luck GreenMom!

That. And I'm also not fond of hierarchies. I too love two men in my life, husband and boyfriend, and they're both equally important to me even if the relationships I have with them are different. Good luck in finding your way :)

Pinball.

Just echoing what everyone is saying...emails/IM/texts and phone calls are a good way to reach out in between dates. My boyfriend and I did a lot of emailing in the beginning (he and I don't really like talking on the phone too much, lol). And I understand how hard it can be to get time alone...

Of course :) Yes, it absolutely is possible. The new love feels different from the established one but doesn't cancel it. My boyfriend and I have been dating over a year and his core triad and my marriage to hubby are still happy and intact. It just takes honesty, compromise, a willingness...

There are no certainties. Proceed slowly because I'm here to tell you that even if your intent is to add a person only for 'fun', it can turn to more. If you're not ready to face that possibility you may want to sit down and discuss with your mate exactly what your expectations are and all the...

Inara (I've watched too many episodes of Firefly, lol)

If it's a bone fide relationship you want and not just casual swinging, I totally agree with that. My boyfriend and I made a point to develop over a period of months the non sexual parts of our relationship even though we started with the sex, lol. And now, like nycindie, sometimes we have...

Been spending a little extra time here and there with the boyfriend, and really getting used to seeing him a lot makes me miss him that much more, lol. Had a really fun night playing Castle Ravenloft (a D&D board game) and watching some Doctor Who last night with all the mates and another...

Maricruz

quickie :)

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