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Bitch :)

I kind of fell into it. I have been mono all my life until about 1.5 years ago. I'd never thought about living out a poly relationship until I married my current husband 3 years ago. He wasn't poly, but he is bisexual. I always felt like asking him to never be with a man again because we...

I too enjoyed Ferrett's post...I know that as a poly-noob, I've at times felt like a silly teenager and wondered if I'd ever figure this shit out, lol. Thankfully, I've done most of this privately (...with help from this forum :P ) and hopefully avoided looking like a complete idiot :)

TesseracT - One

Trinity (watched the Matrix once too many times :) )

Disco.

Indeed...we are twins ;) I also hate looking needy...but sometimes the facade cracks a bit :P And yes, I am happy and head over heels in love :)

Losing pets is hard... I consider mine family. Not more important than humans but often more likeable. ;)

Offensive.

I totally understand that. I just think that your mates would prefer knowing how you feel BEFORE it was too late and you'd already made a decision that might hurt them. You might be pleasantly surprised at just how much they care about your happiness. Thank-you :) It doesn't need so much...

I had dogs growing up. When I was little, we had a Doberman, later a German Shepherd. As an adult I've owned a Shih Tzu (now deceased) and I currently have an older Husky mix and two orange tabby cats. I know with certainty that the more I know people, the more I love my pets...

Torture

It certainly can be an equal relationship once you become a triad (my boyfriend's triad is very stable and has worked well for at least 5 years). Though from what you say, it's still up in the air. Perhaps you could press the issue gently, letting them know you can't wait for them to set a...

Hardcore.

I think I know how you feel. I just watched my boyfriend marry one of his live in partners this past weekend. I live in one house, with my husband/kids and they live as a MFM triad with their kids in another (same city though, not long distance). Even though I KNOW he and I can never have...

Choke

Still kind of emotional from the weekend plus I'm having a really shitty day at work, great combo. I hate my boss and he's not real fond of me either... I'm SO tired of putting up with his stupid shit, I need a new job. :mad:

Door.

Well, she needs to stop. Close things up temporarily and TALK. She cannot expect to be allowed to play while you can't for fear of her meltdown.

Polypenguin: If one partner isn't totally ready, and it sounds like she isn't nearly secure enough yet, you both should step back and talk about it more. In theory, you and her should have the same rights in this relationship...what's good for the goose is good for the gander as they say...