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I broke things off with my long-term boyfriend in January. I spent a lot of time grieving this relationship. He disappeared from the places and friends I know about a month ago, after I first saw him in public. I had deleted all his information from my cell. Yesterday, my phone rang. My preteen...

I have to agree with dingedheart. I further have to say that finding out after the fact that a joint decision regarding our child was being sunk because of other partner's sudden decision not to move, and me only finding out about it during an argument, would cause me to want distance too. It...

For me, I needed something more than my husband. He is submissive. I can be equal, but I am submissive. I prefer the "alpha male" type sexually. So how common is it? I don't know. I know when I am happy with bf, my husband gets the overflow. Please understand, I do still love my bf, but he...

Baggage patrol, you said it better then me. This is my point exactly. No one person can create this situation.

I feel a lot of love, but the click there is which is what it takes for me. I don't have to love everyone the same.

My personal relationship was not fraught with issues about polyamory. They were and are about individual baggage. I think it is naive to say a mono relationship isn't always a work in progress. That said, the past 2 years, I would have had mental breakdown without both my relationships. Yes, my...

I don't really understand how it went from no cohabitation to habitation, when this happened previously it was decided no cohabitation. It seems the signs were there and now Matt is getting cast as the bad guy. I don't think that is productive. It took all three to make this situation. Why...

My pediatrician had a different view. I can say, from working in daycare for college, I get it. There is a point where the kids are going to need to build their immune systems. For most modern children it is in daycare. Yes, they get sick. But don't they get sick in pre-K or kindergarten? I...

I just broke off with my long term bf. I spend a week in bed and am still depressed over it. The relationship could have gone on but it would have been unhealthy for me. I have not been present for my dh at all and with tie my head is moving on the heart not so sure. My dh had compersion...

Mi am glAd ur getting clarity and more respect. Did u and she ever speak on monday. Sorry silly new tablet.

Is airyn. Aware of how fragile your relationship is at this point. Have u spoken to him. About codependence. Perhaps that book codependence no more may help. I hate to say this but this reminds me of a case of marrying young and not appreciating what you have. I. Wonder if he can be present...

I broke up with my long term boyfriend a week ago. We had an agreement of honesty in regards to other relationships. He knows my stuff. He made some life decisions and feels like he just wants to be a man whore. As such he doesn't want to disclose his having sex with others to me so I can...

different take I have often thought and probably am very wrong here that chipmunk came into this not confused but lying about wanting you. I think her intent all along was to be with airyn. I think in the beginning alot of the hurt and disregard was due to NRE. I also things got out of...

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Sounds like you had some meaningful conversation! I realize you want to avoid stress and conflict. Personally, when discussions of my BF were taking place there was some rightful discussion about a b c and if these were not deal breakers in moving. As a person if I wasn't in a good place in...

I also have something else to say, so why the fuck what if he is stress out over your conversation. Aren't you stressed over this whole thing? Don't you matter in this at all? Putting my personal beliefs out there, but didn't chipmunk state she wasn't buying the portion for Wolfe when making...

Why would you consider moving to a large place with the two of them? Especially, Aeryn, when he won't stand up for your daughter or you. For me it's one thing to mess with me, that's on me. But fuck with my kid and it's on like donkey kong. I am a a very laid back person for the most part, but...

A struggle I am having with my primary is being codependent. He complains about things that effect us both. I ask him to address the issues and he doesn't so I do. What this does to us: He is the good guy! I am the raving bitch or just a bitch. Causes conflict between us. Causes conflict...

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I understand the feeling of being afraid to try again. I never thought I would, but then a delightful surprise came along. LOL It's very new. Tough stuff is happening on both ends, so it isn't ridden with NRE.