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Sounds like she does want you to pursue the relationship, but going through a natural adjustment. I think her voicing her concerns is healthly. Just as you needed to voice yours when you were adjusting to the situation. Communication is key. Is it possible your angry because you have been...

I did talk to my psychologist of many years about my relationships. She reminded me of some early issues with my husband. Then she talked about the fact there are no wrongs, if everyone is accepting of it. She was very insightful. The other two parties felt no need to go or talk. They did...

Panic attacks suck! I hate them.

Sage, My husband doesn't really know what is going on, inside me. I have been sick for a week, and lost my voice. All he knows is that A went back to his wife. My husband doesn't really know that I am hurt and sad. I asked him to read something that I wrote and he chose not to. My BFF...

I feel horrible about this whole break up between BF and I. Last was the first time since July when there was no good night. This morning is the first time there was no good morning. Then our sunday thing is a mess. We watch football and if we can't be togather when he is at corporate we...

It's hard when the relationship ends and your still both in love. It's hard to see someone you love hurt. It's hard to understand this crytic, when things change thing, he said. It is hard to know that I encouraged him to go to this counseling to help communicate using the kids in a passive...

update I just wrote this whole big thing about the fact that my BF, who loves me deeply just broke things off with me. He did this as he felt to guilty to continue ending his marriage. He is mono and he couldn't live with the guilt over his children and the pressure his ex, now wife again I...

Whimsey, Don't beat yourself up. You have been through a difficult situation and you did what you need to do to see trust. You are strong and brave. 2 days is a very long date. Keep breathing and you will get through the day. You can do this, then talk when you are calm.

Whimsey, you seem like a woman with a good plan. Keep going and breath. It's hard and taking care of yourself is most important. You are showing a great amount of courage and trust. So keep doing until your at a place you can rest.

Whimsey, I am rooting for both you and your husband. I think him respecting your boundary would mean so much to you.

I have to agree. I walk in my house ignoring the anklebiters yapping for my attention. I have 5 of them. To the back slider let them outside. I then go in and take off my clothes and put on a short T dress or long oversized T. I can't stand clothes touching me. I need to stay decent for...

Wanna play? # First thing you wash in the shower? My breasts # What color is your favorite hoodie? Pink # Would you kiss the last person you kissed again? yes # How are you feeling RIGHT now? wide awake # Tell me about the last dream you remember having? making love # What are you craving...

I understand that feeling, it was the way I was raised. I do state to my partners and ask for feedback do you think I am being a slut? I just need their reassurance. Then I realized I was also raised to love and I do love more then one person. Be confident in yourself and realize you have made...

When I am stressed or going to listen to a new song. I love to go to the little mini car wash and go through and turn up the music really loud. The machines are scrubbing it smells nice. Sometimes I go twice, if it's a bad day. Today, my kid was bummed and gucess where we went....... To the...

I love pet names. If I really love someone they have one. The funny thing is my BF is very yuppie. He his name must be said in it's proper form and it makes me crazy.....LOL I want to change it up a bit. All my dogs have names to. My very favorite name is for my big dog, who died it is...

Communication I have two partners both do the same thing. They both start forming their answers while I am talking. They miss half of what I say and it drives me nuts and leads to misunderstandings. I have been working on active listening. I listen to everyone speak to me and then form my...

I have different pet names for each. For my husband it is Bear or Bunny. He has different ones for me. For my BF, I have different ones for him (he likes to be called Baby) and he calls me entirely different ones then my husband. I think the first time I called him that is when he fell in...

Polly, in reading your posts it seems you wanted so badly for this thing to work with C. You felt left out and she was in love with your husband. Sometimes it read that even though your husband saw this is dangerous you were determined to go on no matter what. You wanted to be included. I...

I have to second what Redpepper said. I think it would also cause awkwardness in living arrangements. It would be hard, I would think, on the father of the child not to want to be with it, especially the first one. I was very very lucky. My child was a very easy baby. Didn't cry unless it was...

I have no problems asking my dearest friend and extended friends why they feel this way. My best friend, was was his partner is the person who let me know this wasn't acceptable. He actually died of Aids years ago. I do know that he was taunted in small southern town by the word queer, more...