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Polly, Do you perhaps still feel disconnected from husband and C. That things aren't resolved and that is why the gym thing is bothering you? I think it's okay to express that. Also that your feeling out of the loop, by the off handedness. When BF makes plans and he does it in an off handed...

We have time pretty much laid out. However, I have asked for exceptions from each and they have done the same. If it were a true emergency all bets are off and we would work togather as a team. Our last exception was due to needing to finish clear some things up between us. However, agreeed...

I just deleted my facebook account so my toxic bitch sister, can find nothing out about me. Anyone I truly care about knows how to get to me. She however, abused the privildge to know anything about my life.

I have the whole hair aversion thing as well. I am better with dog hair, but it is still gross. Way, Way gross!

I gucess Kat, my question is more that you feel she has to be included in your family life. Is that still the case, do you get any regard in that manner. I know it is hard as you have opposite sch. I think, perhaps concentrating on getting your emotional needs met and meeting his might be a...

Kat, When I read what you just wrote, it appears that you feel, your emotional needs, wants and wishes are behind everyone, 2rings, MG, her husband and you last. What I read is that you feel very unimportant and unable to make any boundaries. To some degree are feeling the message is that...

LR, Thank you for saying what I didn't articulate. It seems it is misplaced anger toward 2rings and it is focused on MG. I totally feel for you Kat!

Kat, have you thought about individual counseling to work on your anger and resentment and jealousy toward GF? You don't have to be friends with her, but if you could release some of the feelings you wouldn't you be healthier? Is it possible that you point them toward her instead of your...

I believe a handfasting is when people have a Celtic/Wiccan/Pagan ceremony, making a spiritual commitment for a period of time.

Your not hijacking my thread. I thought this through. I had a hard time on sat night. When I indicated I was taking me time. This was not well received. I deserved it after all the crazy stuff. I also called BFF to take my child for a couple of nights. Nothing I haven't done for her...

You could do a handfasting ceremony. That might make it more legitimate for all of you.

Polly has it right a rollercoaster So, to my utter surprise, I got a normal email from BF. He was his self. He had apparently been yet again thinking I wasn't going to put up with his emotions. He apolgized and said he loves me, he is just adjusting his thought patterns. He asked me to bear...

I had a very hard day emotionally with my BF, yesterday and it went on through the night. He is monogamous, he knew the situation when we got involved. We have worked through some issues. My husband is down with most everything about the situation, until the last week or so. I take full...

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We are not togather, we were on another forum. Vodkafan, I felt badly,while about 2 people were supportive of him. He was new to the situation, and he was getting bashed about. When he finally got private messages, I sent him one sending him here, so the haters wouldn't follow. I am in a...

Nice to see you here VF, It is nice to see you here. I know you will find it a much friendlier place then were we were. Hugs, LYBL

Polly, Did Dh explain why he is now open again? Why she wouldn't communicate to you but would to him? I get that it is a different love. Why not share communication between all today? I do not get it. We had some boundary problems and communication was between all of us. Just questions to...

It almost sounds like C is a cowgirl. Why are you in not allowed contact and he is swamped with it. I thought poly was about open communication, I would think you would be privy to the emails.

I was deeply in love with someone. They went a different path. I was hurt and felt pain. I now look back on my time with good memories. I didn't need to make them a villian. I have also hurt someone. They without contact or letting me know moved 6 states and showed up on my doorstep with...

It occurs to me perhaps his wanting to celebrate their one year of being togather could be a source of pain for you. As I recall you found out about his cheating with her. It seems like there is alot of unresolved angry and disappointment about this. Is it possible that his wanting to spend...