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Sounds more like blessed to me. Yesterday I told my wife that I feel like we are nothing more than fuck buddies. She was sincerely, and maybe justifiably, offended by this. I'm just trying to find a way to understand our relationship better, so it hurts less when she tells me she's got a date...

Yes, I certainly think it was a booty call all along. She's just growing to understand it. It's weird. While nothing has really changed, after I snapped, I feel a bit better, like I know if she continues to behave this way, it will be easier for me to separate my heart. LoveWarrior, that's an...

Yeah, everything just kind of really sucks worse now. Nora and I spent the weekend together, just the two of us, excluding Thursday. It seems like Nick is trying to push her into the booty-call category now. After our blowup Thursday, she got how very close she is to being without me, or so she...

No, Nick knows my friend knows and hates him. Nick is just being a dick to my girl. He sent this while we were all out. He's just trying to piss my girl off.

So, were both in a lot of pain. We went out to dinner and two parties last night, did okay faking happy. I just got message from my best friend, that Nick texted her, asking her to come out last night. They are not friends. WTF?

Thank you all. This just sucks. I do hope when they end, before she finds someone else, that I can get her to come here and gain some mentors, so she's not so friggin' alone. :(

LoveWarrior, thank you for pointing out what should have been obvious. I did tell her today, maybe too late. Last night, I went out while Nora was out with Nick. I got drunk, and picked up a stranger. I sent her text for permission to... you know. She approved. But I simply couldn't bring...

Female - Lesbian, more accurately probably bi...married (in some states anyway) I'm actually equally confused, should be some kind of handle tag for it...

UGH! Now she wants me to come. I told her I'm going out. If they choose to find me, fine. But I'll be damned if I'm coming to them. Our apartment is a perk of her job, so even if I wanted to, which I don't, I couldn't throw her out. Question for the poly folks out there. Women are such a royal...

Tiny update. Nora was too nervous about tonight. She said she didn't think she/we/they were ready. I told her to go without me, and she agreed.:(

Honestly, I don't think so. I think he's just playing her. I think he's acting "hard-to-get" to excite the situation more. Well, tonight it'll just be the three of us at the race after-party. Should be interesting. :sick:

So, I've come to the conclusion, right or wrong, his "Lay off for anniversary week" has nothing to do with our anniversary. Shocking, I know. Yesterday, about 4PM, Nora tells me Nick's been a dick to her all day. We go to the concert. We beat them there. They get there. He doesn't find us. He...

Thanks folks! I am committing myself to try not to get too pissed at any one event this week. There are going to be lots to choose from. While we had some great talks today, Nora forwarded me some correspondence between her and Nick. She wanted some advice. I snapped a little, but quickly got...

LOL! Yes, I have. BTW, if I weren't already married... You have no idea how good your timing was! I asked her yesterday to not use our bed anymore. She quickly agreed. On Sunday I made a "mess'" on the couch, and forgot to clean it. Last night we're sitting on the couch watching TV. She says...

This is so funny, I had to share. Nick saying they had to slow down this week for Nora's and my anniversary? Get this: Tuesday- a concert. Nick and maybe Maya are going. He wants us to carpool. Wednesday- a race. He's running. I'm sure they're betting sexual favors on it. And he'll be at the...

He's never asked me to keep it between us. It's been assumed. If I want to say something just to him, I will tell him that. I believe he's never told me not to tell her, because he wants exactly that, to make me the bitter bad guy and start allowing him space for egress. Absolutely. She has...

RP, you've never offended me with your honesty. Your wisdom and experience (and that of the others here) have truly been an invaluable resource for me. I agree with you almost every time. I suspect their end isn't too far away. If Nora chooses to re-visit poly later, with a more loving effort...

She and I have this very candid relationship. If one asks the other a question, the answer is 100% honest. No holds barred, good, bad, or ugly. I've asked her time and time again, would you want me to leave if he were single? Every possible scenario. And she insists, almost to the point of...

That's an excellent point I hadn't even considered. Well, I think I have about two more months before the job decisions will come into play.

I think she thinks, probably correctly, that if I wind up on the road more, with the current troubles we're having, our relationship wouldn't survive.