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    My boyfriend is upset, can you overcome jealousy issues?

    I've just been catching up on your posts. It sounds like it is going well, so congrats. It's interesting that Geoff gets turned on by that. Maybe you could help him explore that side of his sexuality. Go easy on him, though. I hope all goes well when they meet.
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    My boyfriend is upset, can you overcome jealousy issues?

    I think that Annabelmore got it spot on. I have only one thing to add. Darthfrog, you are an idiot. Trying to compare Aurelie with a man that beats his wife! Jeez. I suspect that you have a problem with Aurelie because she is a young woman that enjoys her sexuality. You have a problem that...
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    My boyfriend is upset, can you overcome jealousy issues?

    You continue to refer to Geoff as a "babysitter." That does not sound like any babysitter I have ever used. It sounds like a very sweet and loving father, who adores his son, which is exactly what Aurelie says he is. Just because when you were 28, you were not mature enough to look after and...
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    My boyfriend is upset, can you overcome jealousy issues?

    Vixtoria, has your poly relationship always run smoothly? Do you never have any issues, slight signs of the occasional bit of jealousy, or whatever else? It sounds to me that Aurelie's relationship, up to recently, has run very smoothly, and now that a problem has crept up she is trying to deal...
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    My boyfriend is upset, can you overcome jealousy issues?

    I do not agree. Are you saying that all men could be at a level playing field sexually? Not all men can be porn stars. In my experience most men are average sexually, some are terrible, and some are good. The odd man is an uber lover. They are very view and far between. I have only come across...
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    My boyfriend is upset, can you overcome jealousy issues?

    Do not give that ^^^^^^^^^ up unless you have to. Also, remember this, if you do give it up, because it's hurting Geoff so much, it might well cause you to resent him, and where will that leave you? It may be that in the end you are left without Ewan, Geoff without you, and your son is without...
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    My boyfriend is upset, can you overcome jealousy issues?

    1) Yes I do think you are cuckolding your boyfriend, but, no I do not think you are being terrible. 2) No, you should not stop now. That would not work. I know the word cuckold can be taken the wrong way, and you should never ever talk to your loving boyfriend with anything other then love, and...
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    My boyfriend is upset, can you overcome jealousy issues?

    The love you have for your boyfriend really shines through in your posts, Aurelie. I think the post that I have quoted is so sweet, and I hope you have told Geoff that you have never known another man who was able to shoot such a heavy load. The part where you say it can fly a good few feet made...
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    My boyfriend is upset, can you overcome jealousy issues?

    This is an interesting point that Anneintherain makes. She questions if what your lover is doing is poly. Well, for me, poly is when a person wants more than one intimate relationship at a time with the knowledge of everyone involved, and everyone happy to participate, even if this is as a mono...
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    My boyfriend is upset, can you overcome jealousy issues?

    I disagree. It can last long term. My own situation mirrors Aurelie's, and it has worked for me, my husband and boyfriend. I don't think she said that she gets off on the cuckold thing. It's Ewan that does, and that doesn't surprise me. It's a man thing. So what if Geoff is a cuckold, anyway...
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    My boyfriend is upset, can you overcome jealousy issues?

    Also, you were with Ewan before Geoff. How does Ewan feel about Geoff? Is he jealous?
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    My boyfriend is upset, can you overcome jealousy issues?

    Hi Aurelie, I've lurked on this forum for a while, but have never posted until now. I'm also from London. A few years ago, I found myself in a very similar position to what you find yourself in now, and I wanted to give you some advice. First off, to answer your question, yes, you can...
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