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MBG, this sounds allllll tooooo familiar! The thing is for me that I tried! I tried really hard. I sucked it up, lost weight, vomited in the morning, went to counseling sessions, spent $$$$... and I think that I am finally at the point where I have to say, "I just cannot do it." It pains me so...

Not to leave anyone disappointed....YUP, the ZEN is over!! AND instead it is going on two days full of anxiety! I suppose that the cause of this anxiety is in the fact that I simply cannot get past the total disregard for reciprocation. I mean total. Hubby and I cooked, cleaned, poured drinks...

Is there a place for Type A's here? ;) Ya, maybe that we want it ALL, forces us to deal with stuff that some would never ever venture into!! Maca, you resonated with me....is there a way to win at this? Not sure... P2

MBG...your marriage is the thing dude. Fuck everything else. Work on this ONLY...I know...a bit harsh, but...

We are all so wired to think that we have to go through absolutely knee deep shit (sorry) in order to have some sort of personal growth or to gain that elusive self knowledge! Maybe, just maybe, we don't, and if we were more happy more of the time, instead of riding the heroin high then crashing...

Whatever works for you, as an individual and a couple, should be embraced! Superjast, I would be interested in what your thoughts are on 'long term' couple relationships. How they worked for you? How they ended? If you would do it all over again? Please reply to this one, on the Polly Roller...

Post Weeeeekend update Once again, all three of us had a fantabulous weekend!! :p It started with dinner, and drinks, then some dancing. I flitted about the dance, talking to many many people that I hadn't seen in a while! C and Hubby parked themselves for the night and chatted a la 'a date'...

RP...it's tough to NOT feel that it is you when someone you love is going through a tough time, BUT you have to BELIEVE that and give them space. It is important that PN communicate to you that it is NOT you and that it is HIM. It is VERY hard to hug someone who is so distant, and most likely...

You can't help it Mono, you are an ISTJ!! ;) The "J" is a VERY hard piece to pound out of you no matter how much you try!

It's a total mofo! I know HOW extremely difficult this is!! It looks like you - T and L have a wonderful relationship! Just remember, that you are in this together. It is YOUR relationship that matters the most. If you both cherish each other as you do....the Trust between the two of you will be...

TL...you know that you and I have this in common, FOR SURE!! AND here I thought you were all good with it all....see, everyone is NORMAL! ;) I just read the 'Agreements' chapter in the Ethical Slut....and yes, I made the mistake of composing an email during BAD PMS, stating how I would like to...

Rabbit, I take it this one was for me! :) Well, funnily enough, we DID STOP having sex with JUST each other for a bit. Not sure if that was due to the fact that we were exhausted from the 20 times per weekend routine, or that we actual 'felt' we were leaving her out. We DID return though to...

Ahhhhhh, weekend PEACE. I love it. Love it! Feels sooooo 'in the now'. If there was a colour for Bliss, I would be turning it now! :)

I agree. Sometimes my 'opinion' comes out a bit too strong. I will ALWAYS try my very best - and succeed dammit - at not losing trust by disregarding boundaries set in place. For me, I know that my hubby is very secure that I would NOT leave him for anybody, male or female! It's not as secure...

I2...nice read, thank you! :) I 'feel' similar to your wife I think....boundaries are for hubby, not so much for me. Saying this out loud bothers me immensely! I have so far upheld 'most' of the boundaries that we have decided on together. The only time being a little romp with the GF, while...

Good point TL....Hubby and I discussed this morning that we will 'schedule' a communication meeting for early next week. Hopefully, just knowing that it is coming up, will keep everyone GOOD for a day or two. I do KNOW that things are bugging me inside....not so much "Content" as the feeling...

The Poly life is VERY distracting!!! I have missed Freeway exits, poured Cranberry Juice (instead of cream) in my coffee, and YES, even missed deadlines for work because I have been 'preoccupied'. Sorry to hear about your toe!! Ice ice....baby.... :)

Not to be outdone in the 'wheeeeeeee' department.....it looks like the ride is back on course! Thursday, I took a time out, and curled up with Hubby on the couch and had some great one on one time. Friday morning....a bit of reconciliation between everyone, and a misunderstanding or two (just...

I have been pleasantly surprised in the few friends that I have told in that they are SOOOO supportive and are ONLY worried that I NOT get hurt. Even my BFF who is pretty traditional, has come around and said to me yesterday, "You are less and less appealing with the MORE control measures that...

Lmbl, thanks for the posts. Good thoughts. :) What are MY expectations? I guess the answer to that is that I LOVE the fun that we have when we are ALL together. So, my expectation would be that we would continue to have fun all together. C's expectations? My thought is that she wants more one...