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No kidding. Some days I REALLLLY do feel CRAZY! You mention PMS...Hubby says that it is the worse that he has ever seen in me lately. Despite all the extra B Vitamins and Estra Smart. The feelings of rejection are SOOOO amplified right now, it is truly VERY CRAZY. Any words of wisdom for that...

Okay...let me see if I can translate...and wax poetic at the same time... I won't ever find obstacles in our true love for each other... Our love will not change course simply because there is a change If you should stop loving me, I will still love you It is a constant, always, my love There...

Thanks AnotherBo....hard to find any 'calmness' this a.m. Anxiety is jumping through any space that it can find within my body. A three ring circus of Brain, Body and Soul! All majorly twisted! :( Hubby and C are at the gym together now! In 20 + years together, I think that this is the second...

One of the reason for our big blow up in Communication yesterday was because I 'suggested' an agreement - reading that chapter in the Ethical Slut now! It sort of made sense, since I find myself feeling jealous/envious/bitter mostly when things are sprung upon me! C is VERY fly by the seat of...

Glad to hear, MBB. Always good when the skies clear and the sun shines again! Wish I could say the same. Still feeling sort of *numb* from yesterday's communication nightmare! P2

I LIKE Shakespeare.... SONNET 116 Let me not to the marriage of true minds Admit impediments. Love is not love Which alters when it alteration finds, Or bends with the remover to remove: O no! it is an ever-fixed mark That looks on tempests and is never shaken; It is the star to every wandering...

Eek! I know that feeling. Did you get to talk it out, finally? Please say yes. :)

Ug, so the day continued to go from bad to okay to worse!! :( C and I talked first thing. I had sent her a text saying that I was sorry that I had gotten pissy and that I had tried to tell them why, but to me, in my mind, it simply sounded lame and pissy. She called after that. She went at...

Hehe! lol! One of my goals in this journey is to help myself become 'less' sensitive and to take things 'less' personal! Has always been a challenge for me. So actually saying out loud, that my feelings were hurt, is doubly hard. Any other people have trouble with this style of communication?

Personally, I believe that 'this disorder' is TOTALLLLLY normal! It is a matter of you figuring out the triggers, then doing something about them, ie, trying to communicate with everyone to 'lessen' them....or to relax through them because they will pass. The whole thing is tough....and...

It wasn't so much that I was jealous (er, maybe a bit) but rather, I thought that they both had BAD MANNERS and simply didn't give a shit. I did voice my concerns with Hubby....a bit last night and this morning. He spoke with C about it on Skype. They agreed that they were not very thoughtful...

Sounds delightful! :) Keep it timestamped in your memory. With every new beginning, there is an end of some sort.

Mid Week Romp Sometimes you have to guage whether or not you want to upset the apple cart with a 'quickie' since so many emotions swell up IN THREES!! ;) Everyone was hot and bothered so we decided to push forth....and romp. A nice enough idea but.....for some reason, I felt so left out...

Sounds like you are on a bit of a Poly Roller Coaster ride yourself! I know exactly of what you are speaking! Feeling left out...and for some fucked up reason, the texting just amplifies that feeling a thousand times! I have tried to figure out the "communication" overload (phoning, texting...

Apparently one of the most notable changes, as we age, is that the E becomes more I, and vica versa. Quite a shock for me, being a VERY high E at one point, to now be seeking time and space in the cave! :)

I scanned the posts, and it does look like there is quite a LOT of NFP's, NFs and NTs. Of course, those are interspersed with a few J's here and there just for balance. Mono, ISTJ, it must be a difficult thing to come to some sort of logical conclusion for you - in the Military and Catholic...

Not quite sure what you mean, Superjast. Hubby is going to tell C, that we disclose almost everything to each other. She has seen this so it shouldn't come as a big surprise. I honestly think that she has never had this level of trust with ANYone in her life, so it is quite a foreign concept...

Myers Briggs and Poly? I was reading II's Blog this a.m. and came across this: (If you don't know - www.humanmetrics.com) . I had been thinking about this a lot lately because of our OWN personality types in this Quasi Triad (is that a new term she asks??). Me: ENTP Hubby: ISTP C: ENFP I...

I suppose "Full" disclosure could be a bit much, YET I think that it is important for C to realize that there is a bond of trust between my hubby and myself far BIGGER than she will ever be able to realize. So, when she asks him for coffee or over to her place etc., the reality is that he will...

My hubby and I JUST had this conversation tonight!! THERE ARE NO SECRETS! We agreed. He is going to tell C that this is just the way it is. Transparent. I realllllly realllllly think ~ and hope ~ that it is the way to avoid the drama. Don't you?? P2