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    poly or swinging

    So you're saying that, for it to be considered a lifestyle, you have to fall within a certain context? That because you consider it the way you feel, not a conscious choice? Does that mean that if you choose to be involved in polyamory, instead of simply feeling polyamorous, that that makes you...
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    Has DADT repeal effected how you poly?

    thank you very much for that informitave responce. although i am military and currently practicing swining, i had never actually looked up the leagal implications. (stupid of me) but we have been paranoid and tried to make sure we keep a good secure lid on what we were doing. i guess where we...
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    What is this "lifestyle" you mention?

    Were you making fun of me??? or is that how you actually feel? i couldnt tell. its ok either way.
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    poly or swinging

    In the wikipedia search for "alternative lifestyle" swinging and polyamory, along with a few others, are listed. Also in wikipedia "lifestyle (sociology)" it basically says that a lifestyle is how one lives their life. So wouldn't polyamory fall into the category of a lifestyle, if it is how...
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    where did that flow chart for the "search for a unicorn" go???

    i remember being onthis forum a long time ago and there was a posting that had a "flow chart" or something like it of all the possible routs that would be taken to find that elusive "unicorn" i was wondering if anybody knew where to find it or could repost it. i found it realy funny but...
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    What is this "lifestyle" you mention?

    examples from wikipedia... if you want to get technical :) check out: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lifestyle_(sociology) below is from http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alternative_lifestyle : +The following are examples which may be considered by some to be alternate lifestyles: -Nudism and...
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    Has DADT repeal effected how you poly?

    under UCMJ, Adultery is a court marshal punishable offence, and since UCMJ goverens us in uniform under the DOD, so it would be considered a Federal offence to comit adultery.... am i correct? all im saying is, with DADT repealed. it is easier for the SINGLE (by civil and military deffinition)...
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    Has DADT repeal effected how you poly?

    wow, thats cool, an you post that memo? im curious as to where it originated. also, can the military charge you with anything if they found a personal you and your spouse posted on an alternatave lifestyle sight?
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    What is this "lifestyle" you mention?

    This is the first time i have seen that people have a problem with the use of the word "Lifestyle" yes i am a swinger, that is a lable that fits me just well so far. And for most swingers... we do call it a lifestyle. so when a person with a institutionalized swinger background posts into a poly...
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    poly or swinging

    Thank you for your reply. This of course is not my view, but I have seen it a lot. But I dare ask (I am a swinger), why do you call it a "type of non-monogamy" instead of a lifestyle? What is wrong with that word?
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    poly or swinging

    Would you say that swing is to poly as promiscuity is to mono? Would you say that the swinger lifestyle has a natural progression into the polyamorous lifestyle? Just the same as partying around, and promiscuous hetero sex is (by some people's definition of regular human life) a natural...
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    Why do you use the online name that you use?

    i think my screen name is self explanitory :) we are a couple, we are married, we enjoy the physical company of other couples, and since we are here, we are obviously interested in the emotional company of other couples as well... lol "swing is to poly as college is to mono"
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    A request: state your gender and sexual preference/orientation

    male bi curious, married swinger, bdsm submissave. any other lables i need to put on myself?
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    Has DADT repeal effected how you poly?

    Since the Repeal of DADT, there has been a mandatory "Brief" date that the DOD must Brife all of its people by before it actually instates parolell policies that replace the old one. In my own briefing, the question of swinging, poly, and kink came up and the SGT holding the briefing basically...
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    hey there. el paso here, how are you doing? swinging married couple in el paso tx. we prefer...

    hey there. el paso here, how are you doing? swinging married couple in el paso tx. we prefer swingers, but we are not close minded to something more srious.
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