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  1. Jodi

    10 things you love

    i luv g's.. 1. rosy cheeks w/ dimples 2. he's a good dad 3. way he coaxes me to orgasm 4. hard worker 5. approachable 6. wants to please, do right by his loved ones 7. huggable 8. healthy sexual appetite 9. way he worries about everyones safety 10. easygoing
  2. Jodi

    Word Association Game!

    crack
  3. Jodi

    double standard

    has anyone known a person that wouldn't allow their partner to have sex with another change his/her mind over time? i'm wondering if there is any hope for my couple. after 6 months, my friends husband/my bf, still feels uncomfortable with her being able to either swing or have a boyfriend...
  4. Jodi

    Thunder's big problem. I need opinions, please.

    i would ask them straight out if they were trying to ditch me. But that might be hard for you to do. Sometimes we are just being worried about something that's not even true. So it may be hard, but at least if you ask you'll find out. Good luck.
  5. Jodi

    happy

    thanks! have a good day.
  6. Jodi

    happy

    hee hee, i feel all giddy...i'm twitterpatted. i know that i haven't been here long but i feel comfortable sharing. my bf and i, and his wife this morning are all in agreement that it's ok to say i luv you. wow, i haven't felt this in a long time. we had a long talk about things that were...
  7. Jodi

    Intimacy Issues...

    it must be hard to want to be with someone physically and not be able to. he is definately not a user. i'm not sure of what advice to give you, i do think that you're putting all your eggs in one basket..sorry 4 the old time expression, but you are young...however, the heart is very strong. mb...
  8. Jodi

    Redpepper's journey

    I'm glad things are working out for you. You're lucky to be close to your parents, too. See, a child can teach their parents, as well. Have a good time at the cabin!
  9. Jodi

    need more attention from bf

    thanks redpepper. yes, much of what you say is the case. we talked alot tonight. i cancelled our date at first, but then asked him to come over. he has just started to say i love you. i am going to see others as well. he is very protective of all in his life, his wife, me, his children, my...
  10. Jodi

    Intimacy Issues...

    hi ray. sorry that you're going thru this frustration. i don't think that ur SO really knows what is right for you. does he feel guilty? i think maybe that's the case with the "drag you into it" comment. you said that you had an honest open long discussion. he knows how you feel. what is he...
  11. Jodi

    Have you ever wanted more from a partner?

    lol. nope, don't want to torture myself!
  12. Jodi

    Have you ever wanted more from a partner?

    thanks friends.
  13. Jodi

    Have you ever wanted more from a partner?

    gwendolyn, that is so bittersweet. howdo you know that once u are divorced (i hope i read that correctly) that u and he can't build a future together. i understand about the kid thing tho. at 46...i'm 40 something too...u don't want to start making babies again. i admire your strength, bcz...
  14. Jodi

    How Do You Prefer to Receive Bad News?

    aww, i hope that it works out for you. i don't want you to crumble. hopefully you can get support or even find it here if you feel like you need it. i was going to say, how do i prefer to get bad news? sugarcoated!
  15. Jodi

    what defines a partner?

    perhaps say that you have to focus your energies somewhere else right now or that you don't think that you're a good match. it's hard to do i'm sure. good luck. nobody wants to hurt anothers person's feelings, maybe you could even say that.
  16. Jodi

    Have you ever wanted more from a partner?

    right, i understand wht you mean, he's far away, but one/I and perhaps ur wife needs to validated, or have my feelings validated. i think it might be something as simple as seeing him more tbh. the one night per week goes so fast. tonight's our night, so i'll see how it goes. i really...
  17. Jodi

    Have you ever wanted more from a partner?

    good morning. has anyone ever felt that their polymorous relationship was at a standstill? like you want a deeper connection to the person, but it's not happening? i feel like that now, but i don't want to push the issue, bcz i feel that i should be happy w/ the loving that i get....and give...
  18. Jodi

    "GOOD" relationships.

    i think a good relationship is one in which you want to spend time w/ the other person. my therapist asked me once if i could go on a great vacation, would i want to go w/ my ex. i didn't. wasn't a good relationship. also, i really believe that a good relationship is one in which partners...
  19. Jodi

    I finally took the leap

    hi, like pepper said, do things that make you happy and bring you enjoyment. you may meet someone that you like enough to want to take it a step further..in which case, then you can discuss w/ your bf. it's great if you and he are in agreement. good luck.
  20. Jodi

    Hi Everyone!

    hi brainy, sometimes it's hard to set-up rules bcz you learn from having good & bad experiences. i do think you should both talk about jealousy & how to combat it if it arises...but, i have a feeling it will bring you both closer together...i hope that your first experiences are very sweet & fun!
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