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    Newcomer in California

    I agree, 4 years ago our transitions would have been so much easier but this group has helped me immensely. And there are even some people on here I could see having a relationship with (RP) great group of people.
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    New to triad with married couple

    Concerns So what are some of your other concerns that were not answered?
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    quad in life

    great weekend. So here I am at home for the first time since friday evening. Ended up going over to fourples other house for dinner, but it has turned into the whole weekend. It has been one fantastic love-in all weekend, much happiness and some great lovemaking, even the girls and girls and...
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    Poly Vignettes: Sharing Success & Happiness

    great weekend So here I am at home for the first time since friday evening. Ended up going over to fourples other house for dinner, but it has turned into the whole weekend. It has been one fantastic love-in all weekend, much happiness and some great lovemaking, even the girls and girls and...
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    I'm not sure I like being a secondary-- is it something I can get better at?

    I am involved in a quad. Occasionally now, we discuss the four of us moving in together. So never say never, number one. We are going on our fourth year as a quad.
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    On the lighterside...The 'Things I never thought I would say...'

    Shopping So my wife my GF and I go shopping. I am helping my GF look for some stuff, while my wife decides to wander around looking for coupons. One of the staff approach my wife ' you look like you are just wandering around, is there something I can help you with?' My wife says to him, no...
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    Trying to Wrap my Head Around This: Devolving Triad

    I think the one thing that Eden will not understand by doing this is that this will eventually break down the relationship between her and Bryce, even if, subconsciously, he may not realise it now, but eventually it will. Eden is breaking it up and forcing the two of you apart, and whether he...
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    What if a poly goes REALLY south?

    Okay, I think one of the issues is 'permission.' Is he 5? Does he always need your permission? Maybe some boundaries are in place, but giving permission is counter to the teachings of poly. You can say things like, "If you do this, it will make me feel uncomfortable," or whatever you are...
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    Does size matter?

    In our quad, my wife's bf has a penis that is about three inches longer than mine. But both his wife and mine have no problem with mine, which is about seven inches. In fact, his wife prefers my size. This is a bit weird. lol. For all you women out there, men do think about the other guy's...
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    What is love anyway

    For me there are different kinds of love. This was described by someone on the forum here and I do not know where it was. The love I have with my wife is deep and true, and we ( after 16 years together) are starting to finally make the inroads I so want with her and talking. The love I have...
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    Since deepening relationship with "secondary," feelings changing for "primary"

    Hi there. Having become very involved in a loving quad, I can fully understand where you are going. However, I absolutely love my wife to no end, but the way I have bonded with my GF now I would not easily give it up. And of course, I have the normal day-to-day stuff with my wife that I do not...
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    What are we doing to our marriage? We really need advice!

    Fully understand If you read some of my posts you will see this is exactly where we went. My wife and I were swinging, and we met this couple that we clicked with. One half of the group fell in love, and the other half wasn't far behind, we now consider ourselves a fourple. If you would...
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    We're THIS close to giving up on poly altogether.

    my experience I guess we are the not normal then. We met this couple back in 2006, through AFF (swinging) at the time. we hooked up with them 1 night and then it was quite a number of months before we hooked up again. Then things started to progress. A little over 4 years ago 1 half of...
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    On the lighterside...The 'Things I never thought I would say...'

    fresh Or as my gf and i come down to the living room. My wife says to our bf "they both have that freshly fu**ed look on them. We all smile and my gf giggles.
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    On the lighterside...The 'Things I never thought I would say...'

    I am taking a shower and my wife and her bf come in the bathroom while discussing something and he says dont mind me i just need to use a little water as he starts to go pee in the toilet.
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    Primary/Secondary: Merged Threads/General Discussion/Debate

    In our quad, right now my GF is my secondary, because I share a house with my wife. However, there has been talk about the four of us moving in together. If we did, I would no longer consider her a secondary. All three of them would become my primaries.
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    advice on opening up

    Okay, for you to deal with this, you need to understand the base emotions you are dealing with. You cannot resolve any of this without understanding where you yourself are coming from. Based on what I am reading (and between the lines) you are jealous of this decision and maybe that is coming...
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    New to poly and so many questions...

    OK, so here is my take. Tesla the feelings of jealously are yours to own , and realistically yours to deal with, Nothing has really happened yet, yet here you are ready to tear a head off and in tears. You can say things like i was brought up this way and so on, however every one of those...
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    Poly Vignettes: Sharing Success & Happiness

    Happy times So just a few days ago I thought the fourple might break up. Long story, lots of talking and loving happened and things moved back to nicer territory. we ended going over to their place New Years Eve. Their daughter was out for the night. So we ended up sleeping over and split from...
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    quad in life

    So just a few days ago I thought the fourple might break up. Long story, lots of talking and loving happened and things moved back to nicer territory. we ended going over to their place New Years Eve. Their daughter was out for the night. So we ended up sleeping over and split from our...
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