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Oh geez you could not have said it any better for me. Making love to someone is exactly that.... I love kissing both my wife and my gf, and occasionally my bf too. life is too short to not enjoy love.

sleepover Well my wifes BF, chatted to her this morning and invited us for a sleepover tonight so, Our 4ple will be ringing the new year together and I will be waking up with my GF, they have prepped the spare bedroom and all.

That is fantastic. Welcome to the site, It sounds like you are communicating openly and you do have that wonderful supporting husband. I am involved in a fourple going on almost 4 years now, am with my wife for almost 17 yrs. Enjoy just keep communicating.

Life is very good We have had a very nice week, i guess we are a rare animal because the 4 of us share (all of us). As an example yesterday started with our bf coming over to do some work in our driveway. While my son (older @24) and i watched TV my wife and bf went upstairs and made out...

no rules The 4 of us in the quad here have basically no rules. We are a wonderful mix of people. We do have our ups and downs and such , and there has been some discomforts when my wife said i dont like it when you kiss your GF a lot becuase i dont get that from my BF, however we have done a...

Well Said :)

OK, so i have multiple loves. Each one is unique and special to me. That is the joy of being Poly. I have come to realize just how much this can be a good thing, There is no way that loving another takes away from the other, in fact I have found quite the opposite. "Romantic" love is not...

I think, having found polyamory, you do not need to dump your two. The advantage of polyamory is that you can find another to meet your new needs that you may have and still enjoy what you currently have. If both of your current loves are happy with your changes, that's great. I cannot see how...

Trial Instead of planning that your au-pair moves in with you, how about the au-pair comes over for a vacation? Perhaps if all of 3 of you are together for a short period, things can be discussed and perhaps dealt with. The first sit-down talk the 3 of you have may be explosive, but it may also...

No I am not looking for validation. I am just thinking of the girlfriends I have had in the past (with the exception of my ex). I fell in love with all of them fairly quickly. One to whom I am married with. Every one of them still talks to me, and I realized a little while ago, I still love...

So I have realized that over the years that I have fallen in love easily. I have also realized that when I fall in love, I seem to have the ability to 'hold it' back. Almost like an hold button. Maybe it's like a protection button. However once I let the hold go.... So my questions here are...

My answer to this is I don't think it's fair of you to, number one, move this girl in with you until you would feel the same way about a guy moving in. The one thing I feel in being in a poly relationship is practicing being in the other person's shoes. And secondly, as much as you are going...

Primaries Yes it is possible, we are a fourple, and I love both of the women I have very much, it would be very hard to stop loving either one of them. My wife is my primary only in the sense we have to do day to day stuff together that my gf does not have to. She has her primary in that sense...

Missing part Vanille, I think the one part that is missing in all of this is communicating your feelings. When Armani went out the second time, and you were not really good with it, you should have spoken up at that point. Armani, I have also learned the poly way, that sex with a stranger is...

Emotions Okay, to explain what I think is going on... The 2 of them got into a fight, there are knee-jerk reactions in the fight, they cut things off with you. Sage still has strong feelings for you, "hence her reaction of needed a break from everyone," which is more than likely an "in the...

Communication How can you not take it personally? I can tell you how... Obviously she still has strong feelings for you, hence the 'I am cutting off the world' reaction. However, if I had to venture a guess, the two of them were not communicating, and one or both of them are doing knee-jerk...

Talk Talk talk talk and more talk. There is too much here in the wind. Get everyone together and talk. Make a rule beforehand that no one can yell. If anyone wants to yell, they can leave the room for a few minutes to calm down. I wish I were closer. I would love to arbitrate for you guys...

This is absolutely great. Congrats Vanille. I hope i helped a bit. I would love to get to know you better. I like what i see so far.

And i knew it was in your head, thats my concern, every one brings something different to the table, the couple i date he is an engineer and she is a stay at home mom, and doing bookeeping. But she is unique and brings that forward. Simply ask your husband "why do you love me" and i think you...

The problem I have here is the term "better." How do you know she is a better woman? You have admitted that you don't know her. Remember, we all think the grass is greener till we get there. Your issues seems to be in your insecurity about yourself. She may not be better at all. Just from the...