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I'm in agreement with the others. Visits are in order here. Never move to a new city or state blind. Who they are online is not the same as in person. Every major relationship I have been in started out online so I know. I married the last girl I met online and I never looked back but I still...

The grass is always greener on the other side. My wife and I have had many arguments because one of us wants to be involved with someone and the other gets envious and wants to say no but knows that it's not right. If he's truly polyamorous, I believe he would be alright with you seeing other...

I read it all. :) Sounds, to me, like you made all the right calls except right there at the end. You have a responsibility to your current partner and telling someone else before you talked to her about it could potentially go badly. Deal with the people you're in a relationship with first and...

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Thursday - Nightmares Not Yet Had Today was an interesting day. I started talking to a poly couple that's interested in becoming friends with my wife and I. I am interested and excited to see where this will go. In other news, I bought a game called amnesia today. I already regret it and I...

You need to watch the Horror flick "slaughterhouse massacre". It. Is. Hilarious. I hate horror. I'm scared easily. This "horror" film is basically a stoner film. If for nothing else than to go "yep, that's the shitty type movie I was talking about", you should see it.

I come from a monogamous background as well. It's not easy but eventually you learn to deal with the emotions. If you've already read that book then you're ahead of the game. By telling you to read your own post I was trying to point out that you said things that only poly people would say. You...

Read your post. I found the answer in there and I'm pretty sure you will too. Regarding the submissive, you need to worry less about what you can't or won't give and just focus on what you can give. It's not about better or worse. It's about different. That's why we choose this lifestyle. It's...

Agreed. The romance was fine so long as it wasn't nuts. She let it get out of control.

This discussion is also why a lot of poly families don't like the primary/secondary/tertiary titles. They are confusing and cause a lot of grief.

I did the same as Runic, but when rymmare said it was coming back to the mysteries, I started considering giving it a try again. We will see. Also, it didn't come out of no where. The author got a divorce and that's when it changed. Rumors were she got a divorce over the relationships in her...

I work in a town where a disproportionate number of people work in the same company as me. So I have to be somewhat okay with this. My rule is no one in the same role or under the same manager or job. That way if I have to end it there will be very little interaction afterwards.

There was a discussion on the forums a while back (I'm on my phone so searching for it isn't an option) that discussed the roles of secondaries vs primaries. Basically, what I took away was that a primary was someone you lived with and shared responsibilities such as chores, bills, taking care...

It's my belief that as your husband, he's made a commitment to you. Why are you being relegated to the lower levels of the house? As the secondary, are you taking on secondary roles? No longer responsible for chores, bills, etc? Not to pour salt on the wound here but I just don't see the logic...

Monday - A Unique Outlook This isn't directed at anyone, about anyone, or because of anyone. It's something I've been thinking about after a conversation I had and after seeing lots of revelation type posts on fetlife, which I joined for their poly groups. ~~~~~ The Shallow End By Kyle...

At least you live in chicago. We don't live that far away from you and it's even worse here. Just remember that there are others who relate not that far away.

Most the new people that start out here, myself included, join because they are having difficulty coping with something they've been taught all their life is immoral. Others are posting about their insecurities and seeking guidance of getting past that. People don't join forums to profess how...

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I don't currently have any tattoos but I plan on getting two in the near future. The first is going to be on my right arm. It's going to be three Link Hearts (from the Zelda games) with a tri-force. Two of the hearts are going to be empty and one is going to be half full. There's going to be a...

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