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sexless/asexual relationships Wow, this thread has got me to thinking. This is all opinion, none of it is fact. I am not lecturing, its just easier for me to speak my mind in a very linear way. Plus I am not sure I understand my own positions fully, so if you disagree with something I said...

Possibly helpful links I have already posted in here as to my position on "adding a third" etc, but I found a blog I found useful a while back. I was looking for information about something different, but I took the time to read the posts, and found it quite interesting...

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and it gets complicated Well that is the conversation currently ongoing in my house right now. Best answer we came up with, we don't know. We try and look at objectively, but that's impossible. Might just be a hold your breath and jump in sort of thing. Not sure yet. Will let you know if we...

Oh I did, she thought it was great, but I still shoulda jinxed her :D

From what you have said, all your intentions were good, and you handled the situation as best you could. I think she had a right to know what was going on, but I also the Joe should have been the one to tell her. It may have happened to you, but there is no way a pregnancy with you will not...

Talk it out Mono made some excellent suggestions in his reply, take them to heart. My biggest suggestion would be to talk to K about this. I am not naturally an emotional person, and this is similar to my default position. Over time I have learned that it only works short term however, and...

Let it lie. Grief is a tough one to measure, but in general, let it be. Time will heal the sharpest pain, and more time will soothe the lasting aches. I know its tough, but things will return to where they are right. They always do, it sometimes just takes longer than you want them to. Stay...

Hello everyone, I am a huge fan of little moments. I remember the big events in my life as just that. BIG. Its the small stuff that makes me smile though. That microsecond where everything just clicks, and you know you must be doing something right. Here's one from earlier this week. My wife...

Take it with a grain of salt........ Hey everyone, I am relatively new here, but i thought i would add my own experience to the mix. Feel free to smack me in the neck if i get out of line. My wife and I have been together for eight years. During that time our relationship, our marriage, and...

Excellent link Student! Looking from a purely communicative point of view, this topic is a mess. There are too many interpretations of various scenarios, and so much gets lost on a posted message. Inflection and body language make up a huge portion of conversation, and they dont have any real...

Howdy Poly People! Hey everyone, I'm Tim, and i am new to these forums. I am married to a beautiful woman, we have been together for eight years. We live together in southern Alberta. We have no children, nor any plans on having any. I am 30, white, confident, and mature. I love to read, I...

thanks Thanks for the info. I think I may have gotten a little too into my head about this. Another person certainly adds to the complexity, but the general rules for a successful relationship seem to be the same. Honesty, trust, understanding, communication, and patience. I will take a closer...

Hello everyone, Recently my wife and I had a lovely young woman come into our lives, and triggered a set of serious conversations. A series that has led us to where we are now, considering a Poly relationship as a viable option for the future. We have been together for eight years, and got...

Hello everyone, My name is Tim, and my wife and i are new here. We have been together for a little better than eight years, and couldnt be happier. We have enjoyed relationships outside of a normal marriage for several years now, but as always seems to happen, our life keeps evolving, and the...