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Ariakas has a great point! and to add my own thoughts on your question, I believe polyamory is a lot like unconditional love. Just because some one claims to be in love with their partner doesn't automatically mean that their love is with out condition. For example 'I love my husband as long as...

Well I'm happy to report that we definitely have a unicorn in the cross hairs. Haylee is almost more excited about us than we are about her. In conversations between her and I, as well as Julio and her, she has clearly outlined what she wants and needs out of a relationship and it lines up with...

Wow... I just want to say that reading all of your posts here is highly informative. Sometimes the idea of the relationship can be so far from the reality. I gotten some new perspective from your posts. What I really like about everything I've read here is how committed you all seem to be toward...

Thanks for friending me! I love reading all your posts and getting to know everyone on here!

It's hard to come on here and tell you what you should and shouldn't feel. It sounds like using your own logic hasn't done much for your situation. But I want to give you props for really recognizing where you are and how you are feeling. You are owning the situation, and that says a lot. You...

Skype was a huge help this last time my hubby was away. It doesn't seem like it would make a difference, but seeing his facial expressions while we talked calmed me some. You have to arrange a way to get on at the same time and if you are too busy it can be hard. We usually picked the quietest...

Jaw dropping is a good way to look at it! It sounds like there were some great experiences. But I'm not clear on what you want from it... since things have changed in your relationship. What is more important, maintaining the friendship or pursuing a continued V? Can you slow down? Do you have...

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Arg...I just want to rant on and on. Must be my hormones again. Sometimes it just helps getting stuff out. I don't blog and my dh hates the 'I want to talk about my feelings' convo's. Sometimes I think I want poly so bad because I miss emotionally unloading on a close lover/friend. Well our...

*a little rambling with my thoughts* So I was graciously pointed in the direction of Xeromag.com tonight, and what I found was a huge wealth of information! As I was reading through some introductory thoughts on polyamory, it dawned on me that so much of this has to do with personally and...

No, no, no! You got it all wrong with Princess Bride. She obviously had something for Prince Humperdink, though they never go into the back story there, or she wouldn't have become engaged in the first place. So she should have just kept him as the primary. And when Wesley comes back into her...

gawd...you guys are so destructive! I read the books years ago and thoroughly enjoyed the whole thing. I just wanted to mention the part where Edward, not wanting to hurt Bella, agrees to have Jacob date nights. He drives her to the half way point and she gets out of his car and into Jacob's...

In all this obsessing about finding a unicorn I've created a couple of online accounts, and *sheepishly* even tried craigslist. For the most part its seemed pretty worthless. Although I have made contact with a polyamorous couple that is here locally. We are discussing plans to meet for drinks...

He called this morning and we got to cyber chat, sometimes you just need a little love in the morning to get the day started! I have a feeling we are going to reach a new level of intimacy when he gets home. Opening up about polyamory has improved communication in the bedroom already. And the...

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Arghhh....I just want to pull the covers over my head and hide in bed all day. I hate school! I'm not going again today and no body can make me! It's been three months now since my husband left to go work in another state. We are not a polyamorous couple, yet. But his absence is driving me...

I feel like you have been 'toning it down' when talking about the situation. This is a great place for you to let all your cares out! Tell me how you really feel!!!

When I lived on the road, traveling from state to state. I met a girl in Mobile, Alabama we worked together at a club and she was new like I was. None of the other girls treated her fairly and she reached out to me for kindness and support. I took her under my wing and spent some time teaching...

Thanks for the welcome guys! This forum is great, I really feel at home here. Just the few threads I've been able to get through have made me laugh and cry. I feel really close to a lot of people on here, even though I have no idea who you guys are! I love the reference to the elusive UNICORN...