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Personal boundaries. We needs them.

I'm starting to think that poly people in general are unicorns XD

I don't see why you couldn't code the filter to block that kind of message where most of it is just slamming your face on the keyboard.

This is usually my first stop when looking for something of that nature. http://www.polychromatic.com/pfp/main.php

I'd like to see OkCupid institute a minimum word count for sending a message. Or at least have it be a requirement you can enable in your own profile; someone cant send an initiating message unless its over a certain word count.

Gods forgive me for trying to be nice to people.

"I felt a great disturbance in the Force, as if millions of voices suddenly cried out in terror and were suddenly silenced. I fear something terrible has happened."

I try not to but when I get a message from a girl named "donkeydong2000" I generally run through my list of things I need to do for that day and see if any of them can be done before responding to the message.

No clue. Perhaps its my male genes and I'll have some sort of epiphany when it's mine, but all babies look like squalling little bundles of Spam to me.

This should not be construed as legal advice. I highly recommend seeking out a well-qualified lawyer. It sounds like you already have one but I would see if they have any experience dealing with the poly community. This may be of some help http://www.polychromatic.com/pfp/main.php First off...

Chances are good the kids already know. Kids aren't stupid and they see/hear A LOT more than most people think. They've been raised in an open-minded home and it sounds like they have a good relationship with you. If they don't already know, they'll probably be fine with it. They may be...

Its a question of the biology involved. If you're boning too much, a guy's junk doesn't work as well. Especially if the guy involved is in his 40's. I doubt its "he's not that into you anymore" but like I said, the biochemistry that causes that kind of spark fades over time. It doesn't mean he...

The biochemistry that gives you such an intense zap with the right person is a limited time offer. Eventually even the most passionate relationship cools somewhat. Plus you have to consider the physical aspect; five times a day with little sleep? Good gods, I hope you're not using oil-based...

Even if you're getting upwards of eighty messages a week, filtering out the sleazy messages and copypasting a basic "thanks but no thanks" takes a few seconds and it helps prevent the shotgun scatter type messages that are so common. I never said you were but I think its better for people in...

I totally see the wisdom in that and on some level I do agree with it...but then I start thinking about a young lady when I first joined OKC. She was very nice but her first message was just terrible. It was two incredibly awkward sentences that must have been created by hacking up a...

As for the title's question: F yes. Because of my work (and just general personality) I'm hypersensitive to personal hygiene and if someone's personal cleanliness is lacking on a consistent basis, chances are good I wont want to be around that person again. I put cinnamon in my shoes and hair...

I think you're both drastically over-estimating how much thought goes into these messages from the guy's perspective. Like I said, #2 needs to be punched squarely in the dick just on principal and I will agree #1 and #3 are little un-creative but aside from that I don't really see anything so...

She's stopped interacting with a lot of the community. I would guess because the show wasn't as well received by the community as she was hoping. She was also not terribly open to criticism about the show.