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True, but unless you're someplace like Syria, I dont really see what using Tor is going to do that something like Porn Mode on Google Chrome wont. Fair enough, but I still dont see why something like Tor would be necessary. Its a fairly heavy-duty piece of software to protect against something...

I'm a little curious as to why this is an issue.

Using Tor seems to be a little overkill. I'm a little curious, if you'd be willing to indulge, why you feel you need to use something like Tor to visit the forums.

I cant claim familiarity with any of her other work.

Something I'm always intrigued by is how people tend to square politics with the people they love. I personally am an anarchist and that's a very big part of who I am, it informs a lot about the rest of me and its a big part of my outlook. I enjoy discussing and dialoging about political topics...

Sacrifice him on an altar of wrought obsidian that dark forces may feast on his erring flesh!!! o_O I don't mean to minimize, but the human memory is not a perfect thing. I was once engaged to be married to a woman. We had been together for five years by this point, and one day I looked her...

Normally I tend to dislike TED somewhat for their elitism and blase attitude towards real problems, but every once and a while an interesting one comes along. http://www.ted.com/talks/lang/en/helen_fisher_studies_the_brain_in_love.html

I dont really see the issue. I'm 25 and I've generally been drawn to people older than me. OKC perpetually matches me up with people 30 and up.

I think that's the most apt description. I'd be down for some physical or emotional intimacy with another guy but I've yet to meet a guy who falls under both. It doesn't make me uncomfortable, its just not interesting. I think it also has to do with the fact that I don't feel comfortable...

Male and straight...well...not entirely sure about that. I dont actually know what I'd be referred to as. I'm not against the idea of being emotionally or physically involved with another man but I don't find the idea appealing enough to seek it out. There are ways to add spots either in the...

That's a bit of a juxtaposition, I'll give you that. Define "love"; what do you actually feel or are you using love as a nametag for strong emotions? Not sure I'd qualify it as a disease, but whatev's. It sounds like you're unhappy with some fundamental part of your current relationship and...

Not at all. Simply that we tend to have certain age brackets that are "acceptable" to date within, socially speaking, and few people will venture outside that. If you find someone willing to, in a legal way, then that should be a positive thing.

I'm convinced there is some sort of voodoo magic involved with OkCupid (the same magic that enables my ladyfriend to shake slightly, snap her fingers, and have her bra appear in her hand without having to move any other article of clothing). From the horror stories I've seen (and to a small...

Not sick and twisted, just not conducive to healthy polyamorous relationships. I don't know about anyone else, but I'm not sure I could actually answer that. Aside from that, two problems: First, "normal" is a highly relative term. Outside of the aforementioned statistical context, I don't know...

This may be the overly-hormonal male in me but I have to admit to no small amount of curiosity to see your OkCupid profile. I think that's stepping into paraphilia territory. I'm not averse to bruises (I seem to be one of the only people alive that finds hickeys sexy) but a full on right hook...

Speaking entirely candidly and with all due respect, if I were 57 and catching the attention of someone who was 22 and ostensibly looking for someone far younger than I the answer to that question would be FUCK YES! I've gotten my share of freaks too; I got a message from a woman who, after...

Are you looking local or just to talk in general?

From my own experience, people who are bisexual tend to have gone through a period of introspection and self-examination to arrive at the conclusion that they are bisexual. Along the way, they find things like polyamory. Additionally, being bisexual also means you are more likely to come into...

BAM! Nailed that sucker like a rocket powered hammer. I would only quibble to say that your way of thinking with regards to "I cant do this" isn't wrong. If poly isn't your thing, it isn't your thing. That's not a thoughtcrime. The "I kinda want to move in so he has a greater chance of...

If I may slip into my pseudo-intellectual cosplay for a moment: the stratification in the different groups that enjoy Trek or Wars more is interesting because you can end up with a situation where a person is at a con dressed like Spock only to spot another person carrying a lightsaber and say...