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Ivy, thank you. I know its been a while, but I read this and really do appreciate the thoughts. I'm currently trying to figure out where I fit on the poly spectrum. I work best with the primary/secondary labels because, at heart, I like to label things. He is primary to me, I am primary to him...

I know eh? Although I am feeling it this morning... even hotubbing for an hour when I got home didn't quite work out the kinks. :p Meh - maybe some drinks tonight will help ;)

Fell on my ass at derby. Full on, flat on my back, knocked the wind out of me fall. Hoping that the bruise on my ass blooms nicely ;) Was a fun night :p

Had a long painful conversation with W about us, where we're at with our relationship, his self esteem, my self esteem and what we each want and are willing to give. It started as a talk about sex, then ended up in serious relationship issues. It ended well. I'll post more on my blog later.

*pulls the group close and squeezes tight in a bear hug* Ahhhhh I needed that :) ;)

The "How are you doing?" thread? I seemed to have lost it :eek:

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Made birthday cards for hubby. His birthday was last Wednesday - but he was away :) Cards got made and given today :)

Just over a month ago my father died. 20 months ago my husband's heart stopped. Today, I can't reach him because he's on a fishing trip with his brother. And his brother deliberately took him to a place where there's no cell service. It terrifies me because I don't know that he took his...

WARNING: Raw, Unedited Emotions I am angry and sad and lonely and hurt and I can't fucking stand it. Even now, having given myself permission to just let it all out, to purge my soul, and hopefully my mind, I find myself unable to let it flow. There's a blockage that physically hurts. I wrote...

No, I agree that Arizona isn't happy sharing Callie - but isn't that somewhat close to reality? Its rare that someone is completely happy with sharing - especially if they didn't want to share in the first place but are 'forced' to. I think its really well done - especially given the stresses...

Just saying hello so I can follow your blog again :) And yes I know I can "subscribe" but this is much more fun :)

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I am 5'6" but I like to tell myself I am 5'7" - I hate feeling short ;) Long-ish hair, past my shoulders, currently a vibrant red. Curvy figure, too much weight, and great boobs :) I have been told I look similar to Shannon Doherty, Katya Whatever her name is on Castle, as I have high...

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Yay for derby!!! I practiced T-Stops and hops :p

Derby derby derby derby.... Exercise will make you feel better. Go to derby :)

Sex can be recreational and fun. Although the kind of sex that you mention (the complete absence of feelings) usually happened when I was seriously inebriated... Hubby and I used to swing. We have had an open type relationship. We have engaged in 3somes and moresomes. It was fun. Just...

There's a couple of sayings: Fake it until you make it and Act as if Jealousy can be surpressed, worked around and one can "act as if" everything is ok, until it IS ok. You cannot be happy, and acting mad. Conversely, you cannot be angry while 'acting' happy. Try it. Next time you're in...

In a world where taking responsibility for your actions is a rarity - that's not an elementary question. How does one make amends? Well - that depends. Sometimes you can't. Sometimes a simple, geniune "My actions hurt you and I'm sorry" is all that it takes. It's a concept that's not...