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    What did you do today that made you smile?

    Technically it was last night, but I had a Cowboy in my hotel room last night... :D
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    Something More

    I had a date last night. There was this guy I met 7ish years ago on a swingers chat room. We flirted, we talked, we kept in touch. We had coffee once or twice. He's a cowboy, does rodeos and lives in the country. (Gonna nickname him Cowboy) Nothing happened. I never met his wife, and I wouldn't...
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    Your most recent OKC messages. post em here!

    I recently recieved a message that said: :) That's it. Just a smiley face. I sent one back :p
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    Word Association Game!

    lightly
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    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    Trying to wake up. Had an awesome day yesterday - had some success with work, got an hour to myself, spent an afternoon/evening with my derby girls (even though we lost the bout :( ) and got to sleep in till 10am. :D Trying to clear my head - was woken out of a deep deep sleep/dream :p
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    Word Association Game!

    tires
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    Something More

    He's ISFJ & I'm ENFJ And the descriptions fit us to a T. Okay, so that makes sense. BUT... now we have a bit of a problem. LOL HE has a "needs to be needed" issue, and does things that *I* like because, well, he likes to please. So he's a bit of a service Top. I really need/want a Dom.But...
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    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    :) :) :) :) :) :)
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    Only 6 months for HSV-2

    HSV (herpes) and HPV (genital warts) are two different virus's
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    Terminology question: Comfortable with mono and non-mono relationships.

    Monogamish. You'll have to scroll down to the bottom to see Dan Savage's explanation.
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    Weight loss support

    My blog Found out I'm fitter than I thought.
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    Only 6 months for HSV-2

    No - what they mean is that if you have genital herpes, your ass is diseased and you're unworthy of sexual contact. Having a cold sore is 'no big deal' - in that it doesn't have the same social stigma of being a "diseased whore" - you're just unfortunate that your mother or grandmother or aunt...
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    Only 6 months for HSV-2

    The reality is that up to 85% of the population has ALREADY been exposed to either HSV1 or HSV2. That means that already have the virus in their body - regardless of symptoms. This comes from years and years of people thinking that cold sores are "not a big deal" (let me tell you - as...
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    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    Spent most of yesterday and the start of today in panick attacks. Been a long time since I've had ones so ... prevalent. Managing them by decluttering and cleaning. My house needs a deep clean. Its getting it. Hoping to have wrestled my stress to the ground by the time trick or treating...
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    cheating-poly; what's the difference?

    I'm pretty sure that's just what I said... :confused: :rolleyes: :cool:
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    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    I am oh so tired. I wish I could have had another night on the island - seen some peeps... *sigh* Ah well. Next time. I told Derby I would come see her Feb this year, then it was summer, then it was August. I read somewhere.... If its important to you, you'll find a way. If not, you'll...
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    cheating-poly; what's the difference?

    To me, cheating has always been breaking the boundaries that were set as a part of our relationship. For some, that could be looking at porn. For some, that could be flirting with someone. For some, that could be physical intimacy For some, that could be emotional intimacy. It depends on...
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    Turnabout

    Carma - everyone can see clearly because we are not mired in emotion and history and children and family and finances. You are. But if you go back and read YOUR story - but read it as if it were someone else - what would you tell them? How would you advise them? Once you've clearly laid...
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    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    The teacher who is running this field trip has us on an extremely tight timeline, we'll be home at 5. I would love to, unfortunately this trip is very much a whirlwind :p I have promised Derby that we would make it over here soon though :)
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    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    Yes I am. Having breakfast at the Swiftsure between 8 and 855 and hanging out in fron of the parliament buldings between 9 and 10. For anyone who wants to come say hi ;)
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