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I know it was just her dream... but I thought it was cool that the writers even went there :) Gawd I was mad at where they ended it...

It's funny how when one is content, the need to run around posting (for me, at least) disappears. "I'm CONTENT!!! I'm CONTENT!!! ZOMG I'm sooooo CONTENT!!!" Dramatic posts don't quite fit with "I'm content." Had a fantastic 12th anniversary date with Wellington on Sunday. We went out for...

True Blood had a lovely scene of poly... Sookie telling Erik and Bill that she's in love with both of them and either they could BOTH have her or NEITHER. But she wasn't going to choose one of the other... :p

I like that... its something to think about... :p

I'm off work in 1/2 hour. Stuck in Whistler with no car so I'm taking a cab to the bus. Yay me :p Ah well, my car is in the city - bringing me home some derby *schtuff* :D Hoping to hang out with friends tonight, its my anniversary (12 years!!) tomorrow, we're planning dinner & to see...

Fucking awesome night!!! 1/2 of my skills testing complete. Need to work on derby stance, stride and endurance... and crossovers. Still not comfortable with them. But I did well on glides, squats, hops, weaves... Time to ramp up the dryland training... get my endurance up to speed, so to...

I didn't realize how much it was weighing me down. It was awful. Every time I got a text from this person, I wanted to vomit. W could see the change in me the moment it happened. And now it's gone. :D On the poly front, I'm exploring WHY I'm hesitant to put myself really out there and actively...

ZOMG awesome today. Ended a relationship that was seriously unhealthy for me. Felt like I couldn't (it felt like I "owed" him something) and so this is a HUGE step for me.

Derby, crafts (sewing, crosstitch, quilting, cardmaking, scrapbooking), baking, hiking, and computer time :D

I eliminated someone from my life yesterday. Not entirely, just a part of the relationship that was damaging to myself, and my sense of self. Nothing changed, except that I said "No, I'm done," but last night and today I'm feeling an "unbearable lightness of being." I am dancing on top of the...

Things are ok. Hating my office right now. S'all good. It will get better. :p Either because it will, or I'll leave. No real news or information on the relationship side of things. Life with the man is pretty darned good. We went to see my step-mom a few weeks ago and I told her that we...

What if I had posted more openly on these boards? What if I had reached out in a way that I was able to get constructive advice? What if I had stayed in Victoria? What if I had learned some lessons about myself and my marriage sooner? What if I had known to define things so that everyone's...

I found it to be very clear - her husband was aware and ok with it.

NOTHING prepared me for what happened. I had been involved in non-monogamy for some time. We had been swingers. We had had an open relationship. Prior to the "L" word, prior to anything else - the first "date" they were having - we were all sitting in my living room - them on one couch...

It has been a beyond stressful week for me. My mother yelled at me Monday. Totally uncalled for. Totally irrationally. I was already po'd at her because of information I found out at my dad's memorial the weekend before. Wednesday at 3.30am I get a panicked phone call that my daughter and...

Peas, tomatoes, herbs in dirt and happily growing. Absorbed LOTS of vitamin D this weekend... Have a short week this week... plans to spend more time skating and in my garden this week :) I am a happy girl :)

Got to see my boys learn to skate tonight. Got to see a friend of mine discover the joy of skating tonight. Fell hard while wrestling with crossovers. Got up and almost conquered them. Fucking awesome night. :D

Perhaps because we can all relate to pain and suffering, but few of us get to experience the joy you've been radiating of late. Hard to relate to something you don't experience :p Or if you're reading something that yeah, you do relate to it, but right now you would give your right arm for...

Get better soon!!! Glad you're not more seriously hurt!!!

Super tired today, had trouble getting out of bed. I get to work while the sun is shining... hoping that the sun stays around for a few days... :p