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So, I'm on this self improvement kick right now. I have been having alot of personal growth. It feels great to be more in tune with myself, but the growing pains are never fun. Anyways, with all of this self analysis I have discovered that it takes some time for me to "bounce back" from hurt...

My lovey, You put on a brave face last night for us didn't you? It's a very hard thing to have three weeks straight with me and then C comes up and I spend every night with him. If it helps any, C struggles with sencondary feelings too. The thing I try to voice is comparing will always bring up...

I'm Mr. Rainbow Lover. (In the tune of "boombastic" and shaggy's voice) teehee

Yay RP!!!

Lmao... Myeah... NO!

Kudos to you! This one always sends me into a tailspin.

Body image is always a hard thing to... Readjust. I relate it to aging. You still feel young inside, but your outside doesn't match how you view yourself. Do you have any of your old clothes? Trying them on and seeing the difference can help. Looking at old pictures side by side with new ones...

I don't think you are expecting too much. What are your expectations? To be safe and happy. This is why I don't like the idea of not meeting her. If she's going to sleep with your husband, you deserve to lay out your concerns and speak to her about them. And it's total bull about it being only...

Ick... I say go with your gut. It depends on what your polyamory is. Are you okay with your husband having a double life that excludes you, with a woman who is a repeated mistress? Does he really want a double life? It works for some, minus the mistress part.

Is this an ongoing thing or is she new to this? I've heard this as an initial reaction when being introduced to polyamory, and it changing with a little encouragement. For me, personally, it would be a deal breaker. I don't live half lives or double lives. It's all inclusive.

That is a very good point Ari. The more someone tends to hide people see it as shame instead of a fear of acceptance and it tends to validate the initial negative reaction they may have to it. This is something I'm struggling with myself. I've moved in with Bud where everyone knows me as his...

They are better known as bear huggers or hugger picker uppers. Hehe

Hi there feel free to add me.

Hi there. Feel free to add me.

You're right, RP! A year isn't very long at all. This particular year has been my most life changing. Maybe this is why that dark period seems so distant. Also there are 2 things that I have realized as well. These two things are obvious and I knew them, but it took this happening for it to sink...

Thanks for this GS.

After the I made that last post, Bud and I spoke of our feelings. I've already explained mine on here. Basically everything that I have felt from this is the exact oppossite of what he wants me to feel. I don't know how else I should feel... I started out being completely open and understanding...

Ditto :)

I'm on my phone and quoting is hard so... Answer 1) He thinks this of me because I am poly and I fall for friends. He was my best friend when I was a teenager. He is still my best friend. Answer 2) That is a very good point and I will bring it up with him. Unfortunately a year ago I failed at...

Niether I or his friend have shown interest in each other. I guess he thinks that one on one time will eventually lead me to love and that I will try to pursue something behing his back because I know that he will back away from our relationship if I try to add more. If I were to want another he...