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    Poll: For those who decided to be poly after their partner came out..

    Did you decide to be poly in order to fill a void where your partner should be? Did you search out someone to ease your loneliness for your partner? My boyfriend it seems is thinking this is HIS poly. He "wants me to be enough." But he fears that even after he moves here (hes 3 1/2 hrs away)...
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    Responsibility of Thirds......

    You're totally welcome RP, just try not to rub in your boys' awesomeness until ours recover from the crazy water. Haha
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    Responsibility of Thirds......

    Okay, I'm going to stop cluttering up this thread that is near and dear to me with my jokie wokes. I'm sending you my email in a msg LR. I'd be delighted if yall would add me on facebook :) Have a good night and thanks for the laughs, my dear.
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    Responsibility of Thirds......

    Can you pass a psych test? That's the only way boys will be allowed...
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    Responsibility of Thirds......

    Hahaha, Oh my. Some good deep belly laughs are just what the doctor ordered!
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    Responsibility of Thirds......

    Don't forget the playpen for the mono(s) LOL
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    Responsibility of Thirds......

    LMAO!! I'm so sorry I'm laughing so hard!!!!
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    Responsibility of Thirds......

    We never do. That's why yall love us so much :rolleyes: Thanks for the hug, who knew a digital hug on a web forum could mean so much... really.
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    Responsibility of Thirds......

    LOL It's a PANDEMIC!!! This just in... women are not the emotional basket cases. It was a big undercover plot to hide the real culprits! :p I'm okay really. I'm just having a "can a girl get a break" moment... I want to be there for my men, but I can't do that when I keep getting trampled by...
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    Responsibility of Thirds......

    Excuse my intoxication, but is there something in the water making our men lose their damn minds? I haven't read the updates since this afternoon. I'll go back an read them tomorrow. I'm just trolling because today.. my first day truly being okay again was flushed away by my boyfriend and now i...
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    Responsibility of Thirds......

    Sooooooo... He got through a chapter! He actually thanked me for it and got really excited when he saw the survey in the back. It was cute and made me feel oh so special. :D
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    Discussion: Who is expected to change in a mono+poly relationship

    Cute. I see your point. You should set up a mono play area during your poly meetups and your poly owners can make sure yall are behaving. :p Maybe kiddie leashes? In case two of you need to be yanked apart? Hehe
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    Discussion: Who is expected to change in a mono+poly relationship

    I agree with LR (happening alot these days.) My fiance is Completely mono. When I came out I told him MY truth and hoped that he could love and accept me as such. I didn't ask him to find a girlfriend or to try to be poly. I asked him to love me for me. It's a huge thing to ask of him, but I...
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    Responsibility of Thirds......

    I had to let out a not so funny giggle because before I read that you pulled out the books, C was texting me about dinner. I wanted to just scrounge something up at home because I didn't want what he wanted and so he said he would make me something. I said no thanks and he replied, "You're not...
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    Responsibility of Thirds......

    I'm tired of writing fiance(C) and boyfriend(K). C also has add, but he doesn't take anything for it. There's been abuse and abandonment as well. To me what I see is an emotional disconnect. Where you can see both sides of my story, but if you insert LR where she's stated she feels the same...
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    Responsibility of Thirds......

    I got the book as a valentine's day present for my fiance... He has yet to read it. I haven't read it yet either because I'm waiting for him to. LR I really get your way of thinking and I know you are thinking of him when you contemplate this change. Whether he sees it as such is a different...
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    Responsibility of Thirds......

    GG, I have to pick your brain a bit if you don't mind. You see it feels like you and my fiance have similar issues going on and the lack of follow through is hard for me to understand. I've always been a person who puts others first. I always follow through. I can't help but... Be there. My...
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    new and scared 40+ what the heck am I doing???

    I've had the same feelings and was in that exact situation. I've questioned my age (25). Am I emotionally mature enough to handle the work that will come from my heart's desires. Is this really okay. Am I trying to fill a void from a relationship that is lacking. Is this fair to them. Ect ect...
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    A Dilemma

    Reread a couple of things. Do you really not get along with him? There's a big difference of how to work it out if the two of you don't get along or if you are just intimidated by him. If the two of you don't get along my suggestion, which would need both of you to accomplish is to find some...
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    A Dilemma

    I'm wonder what have you done to deal with your depression? Have you tried meds, counseling, ect? The reason I bring this up is because with the lack of "in love" feelings on your part I feel for her if you tried to take her away from her boyfriend because you yourself are mono and are...
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