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    Broad brushes

    Kind of like when Ceoli was reaching out for something more when she was curious enough to ask for your proof and you chastised her? :cool:
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    The sexual element

    I guess without Viagra all women in their golden years would switch to being lesbians, since their husbands can't get it up. Oh wait, according to this we are happy just being emotionally satisfied. Ever heard of the angry vagina? Women are just as much, if not more, frustrated with men in the...
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    I think I failed

    I can relate to this as well. I've been on my own since early teens as well. I always thought that because I was forced into adulthood that it aged me. But the reality is, it just taught me survival skills. Now, I will point out that I'm still in my 20's but I understand now that life experience...
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    I think I failed

    Sorry, I meant RedPepper.
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    I think I failed

    Which thread is that RP? I would love to read it.
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    I think I failed

    Thanks Redpepper. That means a lot coming from you. I have lurked since my original post. Soaking up as much as I can and I have found great advice and comfort in everything You, mono, and your husband have said. You give me hope for the future.
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    I think I failed

    Ahh horrible horrible typos. I'm so sorry yall! P.S. Thanks Mono.
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    I think I failed

    Not sure if any of this is directed towards my post, but what I mant by he chose me for better or worse is... I do expect him not to run in the opposite direction when and issue arises and he is unsure of what the issue was. I do expect him to see it to the otherside so there will be a healthy...
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    I think I failed

    So, I think its time for me to step out of the shadows. I wanted to wait just a few more days actually before I did my update. My fiance and my friend and I are supposed to be meeting on saturday. Anyways, quick update, we are all taking baby steps towards a poly relationship. I just had to...
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    I love them both... New and need help

    A lot has happened over the past week. I will update soon, promise! All I have time to say before rushing to work is I am a lucky lucky girl. :p
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    I love them both... New and need help

    P.S. I gave the link of my thread to my friend. I think it really helped. He said it gave him a little more insight into what I am feeling. He thinks/thought he was not enough for me to love just him and that is so not the case! I love him just as he is and there is nothing that he could do...
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    I love them both... New and need help

    Thank you. :) I've stolen the idea to let him read the Wikipedia first and then discuss it with him. That way I don't ramble on and beat around the bush. All I can do is have faith in our love, and hope for understanding, at least.
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    I love them both... New and need help

    Thank you, pokey. It is extremely scary, yet extremely exciting, as well. I came across a poem from the 1600s I thought was perfect. I How strong does my passion flow, Divided equally twixt two? Damon had ne'er subdued my heart Had not Alexis took his part; Nor could Alexis powerful prove...
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    I love them both... New and need help

    This thread has turned into a diary of sorts My friend told me to let him know how the conversation with my fiance goes. What a rollercoaster this is. Ups and downs, yeses and nos. Anywho, since tomorrow has been canceled, my daughter is sleeping over at her grandmother's tonight so we can...
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    I love them both... New and need help

    My heart has betrayed us all.
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    I love them both... New and need help

    I guess I won't be needing your advice anymore, Mono. My friend has taken back everything and canceled our meeting tomorrow. He said he was cutting off his phone for the day because he needs to pull himself together and will call me tonight. This still doesn't change the fact that I need to...
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    I love them both... New and need help

    More updates and what not I have continued to talk openly with my friend. He has made his final decision to see if this will work. He said that he can't make any promises, as of yet, that he will be able to handle it and continue. But he is open to the possibility of this actually working out...
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    I love them both... New and need help

    I thought of the safe sex issue as soon as he said it. I already know we will use protection because of that. I really don't like the fling thing. We will have to discuss it further. It's not about him being with others; it's the strangers coming in and out of our lives that I don't like. I...
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