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I have been coming here for a while and just kind of muddling through life. I have really enjoyed reading posts and seeing the support you all give each other. I have even been fortunate enough to meet some very nice people from here. I am currently in my primary relationship and I am happy...

I loveyoutwo I have been reading your story and wanted to say a little. I think part of the problem is not just control but also of acceptance. As much as you want to help and be loving, he is not accepting of this. I had a relationship like this. It took me a good long time to say to...

Hi, I know how you feel, i was left behind for a different relationship in my first poly relationship. I am still trying to figure out if I am cut out for this myself. I think first thing is be gentle with yourself. You are just learning about this and you can try again when it feels right...

Hi welcome to forum! Hope you have a great stay. :)

I thought that was pretty neat. :) And good advice. I didn't have much success at all on dating websites so I have actually given up. I agree with what you wrote though. You have a good sense of humor i can tell! M

It isn't ruining a friendship really. I was just told something that meant that he MIGHT lose interest, (he said in the past once he made a "conquest" he moves on.) I am assuming this is from his much earlier past life, I don't think he has lived for probably at least 15 years. I don't...

I was just pondering this very question this weekend. I have sort of the opposite thing going on. I thought the person I am interested in is a friend. We have not gone so far as to have sex yet. We have mostly been making out. I get the idea that perhaps he will not want even to be friends...

Welcome! :)

I have come to the conclusion that online dating is very difficult. I have had a few back and forths, and made a few friends. Sometimes though it really makes me feel even more lonely because I wonder if there are any "real" people out there at all. It is nice to have someone else to talk to...

Hope you enjoy and learn! And grow! :) Welcome! :)

I personally think it sounds lovely. I wish... my cuddle buddy (and FWB) moved and now I have no one to cuddle with. I used to go to Starbucks and sit on his lap for hours and talk. That was one of the nicest times in my life. I sure do miss it. Here's how silly I am. I recently met...

Hi! Sounds like you have a good thing going... Welcome to the site. I have found a lot of good reading and support here. :) Hope you do too!

I am that way with certain people too. I have to reel myself back sometimes. :) I like to learn about people and try to find a common ground. I guess I am always looking for any kind of a connection. Silly. :)

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Yeah I know! Love Hatteras though. Amazing place to kiteboard. :)

I think it sounds like generalization. I have been having discussions with a staunchly monoamorous male lately, and he is trying to say I am just confused, that I just haven't met the right person, and if I had, I wouldn't be polyamorous. I find this kind of interesting. What I said to him is...

I am not a good person to say anything about this as I didn't have a very good first relationship. Basically what we did is we all sat down together and decided a few things and went from there. It worked for a while but outside influences got in the way and the relationship ended. I don't...

Hello to you too. :)

Hi and welcome to the site. :)

Welcome to the site. I am finding it very helpfuil. I felt so isolated until I found this place. Welcome aboard!