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Well if I had my way I would get to travel more often but I only go every few years. Mostly end up going places in Florida which is pretty neat. I also love the Outer Banks of North Carolina. I will also travel to places with roller coasters. :) I do have nostalgia for the area up here where...

I like it up here, as there is a lot to do. However, there's just something about Sarasota. :) I went away for school but I went back too. My husband is from London and of course he thinks anywhere in Florida is paradise. :) I do miss the old Florida a lot though sometimes. You know what I...

My family is still there. Gosh I miss Sarasota. :) Have you been there long?

Hi, Welcome frome a fellow Sarasotian. (well transplanted now) I grew up in Sarasota. :) I moved up a little farther north to Pinellas to find work a few years ago. Just thought I would say hello and welcome to the board. :) mg

Long distance relationships are very difficult. I met my husband online and we were apart for a very brief amount of time. This was back before facebook,etc. We met in a chatroom and I can totally relate to the how seeing another person paying attention even though you agreed to be poly would...

Welcome to the show Lucifer. :) I am also perhaps a little on the stage and a little in the audience. :) Hope you find your way around and enjoy your stay. M

I just had this thought about my experience with polyamory. I still consider myself something of a newbie... I made this decision to go into the relationship that I had last year with my eyes open and I risked my marriage and everything, but we all survived. Now I think about the individual and...

Interesting... opting more for flings than long term though. At least he is ut there saying monogamy is tough.

I wish I knew... I wish I could have a big house for people to come and go as they please, and love each other. I would ultimately love to have people to play music with, and do athletic and artistic things. And everyone should love dogs and cats. :) When I say this, it isn't random people. It...

Hello Moonglow I need you here Don't Disappear Bring Your Halo Don't let me down Come shine around You sometimes it's a long way through the day, I'm blown away And if you know when I land back on the ground You'll be around?

it has been a while since I posted My triad, for the tiny little time it existed (February-August of last year), worked beautifully. It broke up due to outside influences, but it was a kind and thoughtful friendship between my husband, my secondary and and me. They often did things together...

I think most people if you tell them that you are open and honest... they just aren't ready for that. I suppose though that's just me. I have a friend in a sort of similar situation who once I explained the whole thing that I have just been through...(well explained certain things but he lived...

Things are going along. Time is healing my bruises. I am involved in a theater project which has me acting as happy as I possibly can LOL so I wasn't able to stay depressed for a while. I have given myself a break. I didn't seek out trying to get the answers of WHY WHY WHY solved instead I...

somewhere... Hello... I wanted post a follow up. My DH opened a dialog. (Just between themselves though) I guess the upshot is the other person was surprised to know that we still cared for him. I guess the biggest thing i got from it was that I was treated the way I was to get rid of me...

No the opposite has occured here Vodka. DH is concerned for me and that I hurt. I understand since your circumstance is completely different from mine. I guess compersion is at work here in my relationship at home. Today I woke up a little more cheerful. I didn't quit everything I love and...

I am. I am working through it. I appreciate everything everyone here has said. I think the hardest part was not given a vote or a chance. I have talked to many friends and just trying to find the positive in the things I am doing. I really am... just when you are the dumped one without the...

I went to a counselor. It wasn't much help. She says I am still in the shock phase. If I didn't wake up every morning thinking of him and if my own husband hadn't had said yes i understand that this is difficult, it seems as though you two were connected spiritually... I know time will heal...

Thank you everyone. I have been sick actually home from work and of course had a lot of time to think about this. I will probably call a counselor. My husband is so supportive and he feels just as confused as I am and I guess with time it will pass. There's a strong possibility my path will...

I am going to just write this because I guess I have lost all my perspective on what most people consider reality. My poly relationship didn't work out. I am utterly heartbroken. I don't know if I will ever be able to love again or anything. What happened was I was shut out completely without...

Hello Hi, Welcome here. I have joined not too long ago. I am in a similar relationship. I hope you find everyone here as supportive and helpful as I have. I too am struggling with some of the same challenges you have described. Welcome! MG