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FWIW my husband and I are not yet poly and we still mange to travel and vacation away from home without each other. I go with girl friends (non sexual ones) or he goes with his racing buddies... just because a married person is not home in the same bed with their spouse does not mean they...

You are not alone... I"m in the same boat... I want to be POLY and my hubby who I love and adore is not sure he can deal with it...

Ya know, what you said made me really think about this, so last night I called him, and 2 hours later we had to tear ourselves away from the phone. We have plenty to say to each other. It's text that's an issue for us, and sadly we have to be limited to text most of the time, due to time...

*deep sigh* I do not explain myself well. Never mind.

Oh, I can think of plenty of things to say to him. Just trying to capture his attention. He's heavily scheduled, and when he's interested he responds better.

I will check the site. Thanks. I have more day time on my hands than he does, and sometimes we get into some very deep convos. He's very open. He's viewing this as NSA sex, or that was what I thought. That was the intent, but I need some connection to a person before I bed them. This getting...

Oh, I barely know anything about him, except EVERY QUESTION YOU ASKED. LOL He hates sports (all kinds). He's a gamer, both online and board games. That's how I met him, board gaming. I know a little about his family and his job. He told me to ask ANYTHING. I'm trying to get us engaged in more...

works for me!

Hey all, I am carrying on with my new fella via email. It's hard to keep him engaged sometimes, so we are going to play the "question game." I'm up for any suggestions as to good questions to ask, both sexy and non-sexy. I actually need more help with those. Thanks in advance!

Hi and welcome from a fellow Marylander. Hubby and I have been swingers since before we got married 6 years ago... now we are considering branching out to be poly since we are the kinds of swingers that require an emotional connection and friendship with our partners...

for us, we were swingers before we were married. we married and remained swingers but very very select in our partners.. mostly couples we care deeply about and have NON-SEXUAL relationships with as well as sexual ones... we never considered being poly... and now 6 years into our marriage...

Ya know, sometimes folks don't know how to phrase things, and 'asking for permission" is really just a way of telling you. At least that's my experience.

welcome.. i'm new too... and starting to figure this out...

i like my hands restrained personally and that's how we discovered that we like to play LITE i was on top of DH and I grabbed his hands and pinned them to the bed.. and oh boy did I have his attention! it's cute to think of i"m under 5'3" DH is 6'4"

I'm a switch myself... dominant with hubby and submissive with female partners.. I try to let hubs be dominant now and then but it's hard... I'm wired that way. New guy is a dom. picked that up from him early... our emails are slow battles to see who is in charge... I'm trying to be more...

yep hubby loves to swing with me... he likes to watch me and I love to watch him work... he's a bit concerned that he can't be with me when I'm with new guy... and that's a lot of the issue...

bingo... there is a reason he's single at 37 and he does not play well with others... i wish he did not interest me so... it would be so much easier to just walk away

he may be toying with me. I guess I should tell you we know each other from gaming... (board games)... so it's our nature to play games... he is not in a relationship... he has been in the past but never married... I was the big flirt with him... now he took me up on it.... and he told me from...

it did help thank you (wish there was a hug smilie) we are talking and doing better... a lot of the issues were my mis-use of terms... as i become more familar with this whole idea I find the right words and that helps.

i don't understand... can you give me examples. btw we are not replacing swinging... again I just never thought we were going to have this relationship.. .and to be honest I'm not sure the other guy will even be game for it...