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thanks so much this makes great sense to me.

Wow. Thanks for this post, I appreciate it. Hubs and I are making progress, slowly. I am not sure even if we are truly going to be poly, or I'm just going to have this dalliance with approval. I don't know... and that's what's so hard.

yeah but for right now it's just supposed to be fun and games.... and I'm ok with that. I'm not sure what to think... I know from my dating days that you don't change the rules on someone. he's met hubby. the three of us talked about the fact that he and i were going to embark on No strings...

No, it's not. I hurt for him. I could and would tell him every hour that I love him, adore him, need him and want him.

Every day, in every way more, than once. I fear that time will be the only thing that will make him see that he's always my number one. He said his concern is with the idea of my having/needing another husband, and yet, that was sort of what I said. And yet, more and more I know I was...

Actually, hubby knew him first.

While that sounds good, if it wrecks my husband's fragile ego, it's not worth it. But then I'm left angry and resentful, and continuing to think that it's unfair. And it is. I admit that.

WORD! I HATE when DH texts with his online babes when he's out with me!

well for me personally dramatic romantic gestures by my husband are never too much...

I guess my response is "enough for what?" He and I try to flirt with each other and that falls so flat. I love him dearly, but he's a bit of a depressive. (And yes, he's on medication.) He and this other guy are about 180 degrees apart in everything, like night and day. And yet, if hubby said...

I talking to my hubby today. He is sad. I can tell. :confused: He says he thinks if I want a second husband, that he's not enough. I told him I would end this with Mr. DNPWWO, but he said he can't ask me to do that. And to be honest, I don't wanna... I think it's because I'm saying things...

I was raised Jewish. I don't really practice any religion at this point... I'm open to a lot of pagan ideas and rituals however.

i'm really new too but i'll say Hi.:)

I'm really new to the site but I've read the whole blog and wanted to say thanks for sharing it and giving me some more things to think about. I wish you well.

EXACTLY! Hubby has made me solemnly swear that if the new guy tries to get me to leave him I will end the relationship. I keep trying to explain to him over and over that it will not happen. I did promise that I would end it if it did come to that, I just don't ever see that happening Mr...

oh thanks so so much! i feel better hearing that... I keep thinking I'm nuts to want to try this if my hubby is waffling about his feelings... he likes when we play with others together... it's the concept of my being with Mr. DNPWWO alone that concerns him... and yes I admit to being...

I'm trying to get him to join here.... I keep nothing from him so it wouldn't be like letting him into my private place....

well researching is how I found this place. It's been a roller coaster with him already... he wants to have his own relationships and he wants me to be able to do what I want... but he feels concern and jealousy.... we are talking and talking and talking... and my non-poly friends think...

Hi and Thanks... yeah I can easily see us being Poly... we both have over the top personalities. I actually met my current husband in an AOL chat room 8 years ago this week. We actually lived locally to each other so we started seeing each other right away.... married two years later...

Hi Penny, thanks for responding.... I'm a tad shy to jump in but I'll keep getting my feet wet here... seems like a nice group of folks.. My husband goes back and forth on how he feels about this... One minute he's fine with it. The next he's jealous. AND it's person specific. He was FINE...